I took our car to the dealer this morning to get serviced. They have my proper name on file, and call me Kathy or Miss Walker when I go there.
It occurred to me how much visibility I get there. The counter staff in the service department know me. The sales staff in the showroom don't know who I am, but they know that I have killed time in there, and that I drive an older model, so will be a potential customer in a few years. From them, management will know that they have a regular customer who is transgender. So, if the mechanics on the shop floor start talking trash about trans people, they are going to hear about it from management: "We have a trans customer, so don't be talking like that."
That is not a bad way to normalize our presence in society at large, just by going out and being myself. I like that.