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Started by KathyLauren, December 05, 2017, 05:19:10 PM

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Quote from: KathyLauren on July 13, 2018, 06:51:54 AM...  That's me and my wife standing at the table on the right.  We're famous! ...

oo, can I have your autograph?  ;D
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.

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JudiBlueEyes

Wow, what a nice photo.

But now old friends they're acting strange
They shake their heads, they say I've changed
Well something's lost, but something's gained
In living every day.
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steph2.0

Wow, that looks really nice! So does the poster!


Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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LizK

You celebrity you... :D I must say....looking good in the pic
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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KathyLauren

Quote from: ElizabethK on July 13, 2018, 10:13:38 AM
You celebrity you... :D I must say....looking good in the pic
Mostly, I suspect, because you can't really see much of us!  Thanks, anyway. ;)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Jayne01

Oh how cool. I know someone famous!!! Do you mind if I start dropping your name into conversations to show off that I know a celebrity?
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steph2.0

Quote from: Jayne01 on July 13, 2018, 02:25:36 PM
Oh how cool. I know someone famous!!! Do you mind if I start dropping your name into conversations to show off that I know a celebrity?

Sorry Jayne, it's far too late for that. If you tried it now you'd be viewed as a name-dropping social climber.


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Anne Blake

Kathy, if we come to visit can I get an autographed copy of the poster so that my friends know that I have a famous friend?

When life smiles at you, it doesn't hold back does it?

Tia Anne
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LizK

Quote from: KathyLauren on July 13, 2018, 10:49:12 AM
Mostly, I suspect, because you can't really see much of us!  Thanks, anyway. ;)

I could see enough to know you are being harsh on yourself :D
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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KathyLauren

My wife and I went to the Pride Market at a nearby town this evening.  It is a regular Wednesday evening farmers'/craft market, but for Pride Week, they dress it up with rainbow flags, and have LGBTQ+ information booths.  It is not much, but it is kind of cool that a little town does this.

Before we went there, we did some regular shopping - groceries and mostly boring stuff.  But, at a drug store, we found nail polish on sale.  I managed to find blue, pink, and white, as well as some glittery purple.  I painted my fingernails in trans flag colours, and my toenails in glittery purple.  It was only my second time doing my toes, and my first ever doing my fingers, so don't laugh too hard.

The Wednesday evening market is set up mostly for eating.  Most of the vendors are serving fast food.  I had a veggie stir fry and carrot cake.  We had arranged to meet up with a friend there.  While we were waiting for her to get her food, a couple of friends we hadn't expected showed up, so we all ate and chatted together.

They usually have entertainment at the market.  In addition to the regular singer with a guitar, this week they had two belly dancers and a drag performer.  The drag artist was a good friend of ours from the theatre.  He is an amazingly good actor on stage, but I had no idea he did drag.  I am not a big fan of drag performance, but, damn, he was good, lip syncing perfectly to some song I didn't know.




2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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JudiBlueEyes

I'm glad you had a nice time!  You look comfortable and relaxed.  Awesome!
But now old friends they're acting strange
They shake their heads, they say I've changed
Well something's lost, but something's gained
In living every day.
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Stevi

Kathy,

Is that a new avatar?  Sure it is!  Lookin' good, girl!!

Stevi
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Laurie

Hi Kathy,

  I see you have cut your hair and are wearing brighter clothes in order to blend in with the flowers just in case I come looking for you now that I have a passport. Good luck and you better clean the top of your fridge just in case.
  btw it helps not to publish a new picture of yourself and then us it as your avatar if you are trying to blend in. Nut it does look nice Hun. Very nice.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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LizK

Looking great and relaxed there Kathy

I would never have thought to be as creative as you painting my nails that way, this is where my lack of imagination shines through. They look great and you have won me with the purple sparkle on the toes  :D

Sounds like a lovely way to spend the evening,

Take care

Liz
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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davina61

I must say you look like a lady in my village and loving your top
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

Jill of all trades mistress of non
Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
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KathyLauren

Thanks for the nice comments, everyone!

Quote from: davina61 on July 19, 2018, 12:56:28 PM
loving your top
Paisley is my favourite colour.  ;D
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Northern Star Girl

@KathyLauren
Dear Kathy:  Please tell me, WHO is that person in your newest Avatar/profile picture? 
And what have you done with our dear member KathyLauren.

I have to tell you Kathy, as I have already commented to you on another thread, your newest pictures are absolutely amazing and you look wonderful and beautiful and all of the words like that...

Thank you for sharing your life with all of us....
Hugs,
Danielle
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KathyLauren

"We should get another cat," she said.  "It'll be fun," she said.

Skip ahead six months to last night.  We got home from the theatre, planning to go to Annapolis Royal this morning for their first ever Pride Parade.  Everyone else was going to Halifax for the big parade, but we both hate city traffic and parking, and it's a big corporate-type parade.  Annapolis Royal is a tiny little town, and we wanted to support them in holding a Pride parade.  The drive is a tad shorter than going to the city, but still close to an hour and a half.  So we set the alarm for ten to six, to give us time to get there before the 9:00 start time.

About 3:00 this morning, I was awakened from a sound sleep by a loud crash.  As is typical in that situation, I had only the vaguest mental recording of the sound, but I could tell it came from upstairs.  I got up, threw on a robe, and went upstairs to investigate.  Nothing seemed out of place.  Weird.  Back to bed.

But not to sleep.  When woken up suddenly, it takes me at least two hours to burn off the adrenalin and get back to sleep.  So, I am tossing and turning some time later, when there is another loud sound.  It matched the first one, but this time, I could identify it as a cat scrabbling to catch something.  Oh, great, I thought, we must have a mouse in the house.

This pattern repeated approximately every hour, with the sounds coming from various parts of the house.  The final one including the dog complaining loudly about being woken up, probably by a kitty jumping onto her.

Finally, the alarm goes off, with me not having slept since 3:00.  We got up, fed the critters, and quickly decided to abort the trip to any parade.  Coffee can keep me from falling asleep, but it can't make me alert enough for highway driving if my brain is foggy.

Instead, we went out for breakfast.  We are regulars at one restaurant, where the morning waitress knows us.  It was "Good morning, ladies.  You don't need menus.  (She knows our order.)  Sit anywhere you like."  Coffee - YES!!

After some more investigation, we have concluded that it wasn't a mouse in the house.  There is no sign of a mouse, and they tend not to come indoors at this time of year.  The culprit seems to bave been a flying beetle, which I rounded up and dispatched.  Eric, the new cat, goes nuts when he finds an insect, so it could totally account for his hunting expedition.

Well, okay, at least I have some obligatory on-topic content to justify posting this story: the Pride parades, and being called "ladies" in the restaurant.   ;)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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steph2.0

Whenever I'm told, "Sit anywhere you like," I tell them I'd like to sit in the Bahamas.

When they say "breakfast served anytime," I say I'd like it served in 1903.

When asked, "If you could have dinner with anyone alive or dead, it would be...?" I always answer, "Alive."

When I'm finished I tell them that all that food ruined my appetite. In fact, I'm fed up.

I tell ya, I got a million of 'em. Don't forget to tip your waitress.

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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LizK

Quote from: KathyLauren on July 21, 2018, 09:17:21 AM
"We should get another cat," she said.  "It'll be fun," she said.

After some more investigation, we have concluded that it wasn't a mouse in the house.  There is no sign of a mouse, and they tend not to come indoors at this time of year.  The culprit seems to bave been a flying beetle, which I rounded up and dispatched.  Eric, the new cat, goes nuts when he finds an insect, so it could totally account for his hunting expedition.

Well, okay, at least I have some obligatory on-topic content to justify posting this story: the Pride parades, and being called "ladies" in the restaurant.   ;)


Ahhhh the stealthy but ever deadly flying beetles...all I can say is I think you should be eternally grateful to your wonderful cat for protecting you from those vicious flying beetles.
We may have been reading an obituary if it hadn't been for that brave kitty!!!

Take care

Liz
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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