We get all wrapped up in the change-full-ness of transition. It is easy to forget that people get used to us as we are and forget our transition.
Yesterday, I washed my primary wig, so I wore my secondary one to band practise. At the break, one of the ladies in the band commented on my hair, that it looked lighter. I know that she was a member before my transition, which was quite public within the band. So, I assumed that she would remember my transition, and that it was obvious that I wore a wig. I mentioned that I'd just washed my other hair and it was drying at home.
She was quite surprised, and said she hadn't realized that my hair was a wig.
It is actually kind of nice to be taken for granted like that!