It's not just weight, it's body type.
For me, in 5'10", and I used to weigh about 108kg (I needed a converter for this - us Americans and our silly insistence in using pounds). For me, it was way too much - aside from the weight on my face, a lot of it sat at my gut. I was basically pear shaped, and it made it harder to look feminine - I had a hard time disguising the stereotypical male beer gut I had. I've since lost a lot of weight, down to about 86kg, and I feel phenomenal. It's still like to lose a little more, but even at this I see a huge difference in how clothes fit, since I'm not trying to squish a beer gut into a dress.
But had I been fit, I probably wouldn't have needed to lose as much. But since my weight was centrally located in my gut, and not distributed as muscle, it needed to go.
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