Warning long post ahead, sorry
I wrote a letter to myself
Face Dysphoria (ie not feminine enough)
Neck Dysphoria " "
Hair Dysphoria " "
Voice Dyshporia " "
Touch
Sexuality Difficulties, ie The fact that it doesnt seem right as a man, ie having a penis, making it hard to determine my sexuality properly
whats expected of being a man, ie i never wanted to be a husband or father, the man in general
ive always felt like maybe i should have been born female and maybe the universe misgendered me
ive always tried to deny these feelings, ignore them, hide away from them but still they persist, as much as ive tried they just come back its always "i want to be female" ive tried so hard not to feel this way, ive tried ignoring it, ive tried hiding from it ive just tried so hard not to feel this way whatever i do it doesnt seem to make any difference, eventually it comes back, and just wont go a way
Its time to admit what i feel soo deeply inside, that i am female, on the inside i was born female, ive never felt anything more so deeply in my life, except for the fear of that ofcourse
The only time i dont think about it is when lots of bad stuff is going on around me, but in away liked that, because it meant i didnt because it meant that i didnt have to deal with these feelings of gender dysphoria yes it meant not living my life, but i hated being a boy soo much that id rather not live it, (nothing suicidal, just gave up)
I want to be female so bad, so bad, sooo badd, ever since i was a teenager, i dont want to be transgender, but i want to be a girl more
what has stopped me
Myself, my fears
shame
it feels stupid to feel this way, it also feels like i shouldnt feel this way
the no you cant do that you wont like it, you still wont be happy, voice of uncertainty
Toxicitiy in the house i grew up in
Afraid of Toxic people i lived with would conspire to get me kicked out off home because they wont accept it or try to talk me out of it
Am i making this up? is this for real?
losing loved ones (them dying)
dissapointing you, (mum, and maybe myself idk)
seeing the operations and what's involved in becoming female
not feeling trans enough
not wanting to look trans ie wanting to look as female as possible
too vanilla, ie Asexual
dont get too close to anyone, what if they find out your trans?
i hate being misgendered, and being looked at like a freak, even in boy mode its like that for me
Your not a cross dresser, even tho dressing as female feels great, but also a little wrong
Confusion about Sexuality
Sometimes when times are tough, it feels ok to be a guy, sometimes
i thought i was gay for awhile.... im not gay, im trans i now realize,
Sometimes i like men, sometimes i like women, but i dont really feel Bisexual, maybe im pansexual? no your just a normal guy STOP IT
These are the sort of thoughts that have popped into my head reguarding the possibility of me being trans since i was a teenager, just alot of stuff that ive kept inside it felt good to write down in a letter to myself