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What did you get for Christmas?

Started by Julia1996, December 26, 2017, 10:30:44 AM

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Faith

cast iron pans are great. We had to get rid of ours (wish we hadn't) they did go a home-chef that knew what's what with their use.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Julia1996

Quote from: Jessica on December 29, 2017, 10:06:45 AM


She must really like you.  Often cast iron pans are handed down in the family.  Well seasoned pans have a patina that works better than Teflon without all the poison.  I have 5 different sizes of skillets and 4 Dutch ovens.  I got them from my grandma. Love! Love! Love them!

Smiles, Jessica 💁‍♀️

I know. But I don't think she's happy with her daughter since she tried to get her to go into a home.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Jessica

Quote from: Julia1996 on December 29, 2017, 10:54:03 AM
I know. But I don't think she's happy with her daughter since she tried to get her to go into a home.

Well......that would do it.

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Laurie

April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Jessica

Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 11:43:11 AM
Isolation and tears. My doing.

On days like that, I'm glad for Susan's and the family we all have here.

((Hugging you)) Jess

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Roll

Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 11:43:11 AM
Isolation and tears. My doing.

If I ever become a billionaire I'm putting it all in internet hug technology (real thing) and granting a free forever license to this forum. I say this a bit tongue in cheek, but I'm not really joking.  :-X But in the meanwhile, ((**hug**)).
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Sarah_P

Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 11:43:11 AM
Isolation and tears. My doing.

Sorry, this ((HUG)) was lost in the mail, so I'll just give it to you here!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Laurie

  Thank you folks but I really didn't mean to derail this thread. It was my doing precisely to avoid the Christmas cheer and wishes for a merry Christmas. One text did get through from my electrologist about 8:30pm on Christmas Day just as I was thinking I was going to make it without crying. One Merry Christmas and a "I am thinking of you" was all it took. I tried to hold them back but I couldn't the tears came.

  Now can we get back on topic?

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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KathyLauren

Quote from: Jessica on December 28, 2017, 08:56:27 PM
I got 2 cast iron cookbooks
Don't your fingers get sore from turning the heavy pages?   >:-)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Sarah_P

Quote from: KathyLauren on December 29, 2017, 12:49:35 PM
Don't your fingers get sore from turning the heavy pages?   >:-)

:D LOL! Well done Kathy. I'm just sad I didn't catch that one myself!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Jessica

Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 12:44:07 PM

  Now can we get back on topic?

Hugs,
  Laurie

Okay, my hon also got me matching panties and bra with candy canes on them.  She gave those to me privately. 

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Jessica

Quote from: KathyLauren on December 29, 2017, 12:49:35 PM
Don't your fingers get sore from turning the heavy pages?   >:-)

Oh Kathy, that is hilarious!!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Faith

QuoteNow can we get back on topic?

back on topic ...

I ordered some internet hugs to pass around. They didn't come in, they are back-ordered.
It appears that someone broke into their warehouse and destroyed them
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Laurie

I think I saw the perpetrator. He or she, was tall, green and ugly playing some sort of theme song...

April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Julia1996

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Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 12:44:07 PM
  Thank you folks but I really didn't mean to derail this thread. It was my doing precisely to avoid the Christmas cheer and wishes for a merry Christmas. One text did get through from my electrologist about 8:30pm on Christmas Day just as I was thinking I was going to make it without crying. One Merry Christmas and a "I am thinking of you" was all it took. I tried to hold them back but I couldn't the tears came.

  Now can we get back on topic?

Hugs,
  Laurie


You didn't derail the thread Laurie. I'm interested in anything you want to share. I know some people get irate when they think their thread is derailing but I don't.  I like hearing anything people have to share. I don't care if it's on or off topic.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Julia1996

Quote from: KathyLauren on December 29, 2017, 12:49:35 PM
Don't your fingers get sore from turning the heavy pages?   >:-)

That's hilarious!  Once when the lady next door was telling me about her childhood she said they cooked on a wood burning stove. I asked her what kept the stove from burning up. She started laughing. I assumed a wood burning stove was made from wood. A blonde moment I guess. She thought it was hilarious. She has really interesting stories about her childhood and early life. I love hearing them.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Jessica

Quote from: Julia1996 on December 29, 2017, 01:31:31 PM
You didn't derail the thread Laurie. I'm interested in anything you want to share. I know some people get irate when they think their thread is derailing but I don't.  I like hearing anything people have to share. I don't care if it's on or off topic.

And Laurie, you weren't off topic.  Hopefully not, but I think considering what we all go through, you may not have had that gift exclusively.  Julia asked a question that everyone has an answer to and you gave an honest reply.  Just voicing it could have acted as a hug to another who is thinking "I'm not alone" after reading it.

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Laurie

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Quote from: Jessica on December 29, 2017, 01:40:08 PM
And Laurie, you weren't off topic.  Hopefully not, but I think considering what we all go through, you may not have had that gift exclusively.  Julia asked a question that everyone has an answer to and you gave an honest reply.  Just voicing it could have acted as a hug to another who is thinking "I'm not alone" after reading it.

  Jess,

  What you say is correct but I seriously hope there aren't others afflicted with this messed up feeling that make me so selfish in pushing those away that want to do nothing more than show that they care about me. I feel too flawed and wretched in my self loathing to feel worthy of accepting what I so desperately need. It's a catch 22... I want and need it but I cannot accept it. How can I accept love from others when I don't love myself?

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Julia1996

Quote from: Laurie on December 29, 2017, 01:54:04 PM
  Jess,

  What you say is correct but I seriously there aren't others afflicted with this messed up feeling that make me so selfish in pushing those away that want to do nothing more that show that they care about me. I feel too flawed and wretched in my self loathing to feel worthy of accepting what I so desperately need. It a catch 22... I want and need it but I cannot accept it. How can I accept love from others when I don't love myself?

Hugs,
  Laurie

You're not flawed or wretched. You're one of the nicest people here. I remember when I first joined this site. You were the first one to greet me and you made me feel welcome. I've seen you do the same with a lot of others. You've also given myself and others kind and good advice. You're not selfish either. I'm sorry you're having a bad time right now.  But understand that all of us care about you. If you need to vent or rant that's fine. We've all been there and you're among friends here.
Big HUGS.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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