I am so, so sorry that this happened to you, Verny.
Having trust broken is one of the hardest things to get over, I totally understand that. Because sometimes it's the hardest thing to place in someone to begin with.
*extra big hug*
Sweetie, you deserve better. You deserve so much better in life than someone like that. It's clear from your post that he clearly doesn't care about you. And uses you. You are worth so much more than that, Verny, and you don't deserve to be treated that way by him, or anyone.
The best thing you can do, for yourself and your own state of mind, is forget about him, Verny. You don't need him to talk to you, okay? I know it's sometimes easier to go with the devil you know, as it were. But you absolutely do not have to, and should not, put up with things like that. You're not crazy, you're Verny. And you have the right as a person to not be made to feel bad by others. For their own amusement or anything else.
It sounds to me like they just wanted to get to you, and they did. Verny, don't give them the satisfaction. You're a good guy, a good human being, and you've done nothing wrong.
Hang in there, okay? You will get past this. Focus on what you want, and who you want to be okay? Forget about those other people. They don't dictate how you live your life, only you have that right. They don't deserve your consideration, they really don't. They aren't important enough to shed tears for, Verny.
You are valuable, and you matter. Who you are matters. What you want matters. Never forget that.