I've had a close friend who is 2 years older than me Me (19) Him (21). We met in an autistic group for kids with difficulty making friends. At first, we didn't think there was much in common but later we discovered that we both surprisingly have gender dysphoria. In my area, transgender teens are not very known about. I only began to dress in a feminine manner but he's been doing it since he was 17.
We share views also on many things but one viewpoint that I don't share with him is his desire to perform DIY castration. From our long discussions, he said that ever since he was 14, he's been attempting castration; First with "chemical" means (applying toilet bleach, correction fluid, caustic chemicals), then "mechanical" means (rubber band, binder clip) and then finally "electromagnetic" means (microwave). All these failed for him because of the intense pain. Despite this, he didn't injure his testicles.
He said that he felt extraordinarily happy (almost manic, slept 4 hours and felt fine) the year he tried to castrate himself because he felt it would lead to a sense of freedom and allow him to focus on his schoolwork. When he failed, he apparently because very low slowly after that date and the year that followed was one of the worst to date. He attempted suicide for the first time by trying to electrocute himself with the microwave. He was dismissed from school for disturbing peers with suicidal thoughts
After a few psychiatric interventions along with more freedom when he turned 18, he's sort of "fine" (don't think that word fits him tbh) but at least he's not suicidal; his desire for what some doctors consider endangering himself with self surgery is higher than ever since now he can purchase chemicals online to aid his castration and penis amputation attempt.
What are some LOGICAL arguments I can use against this? I'm personally not going down the DIY route...except (but reluctant) for hormones but If I did, I would definitely NOT plan on injecting them or anything.
He's trying to downplay what he's doing by comparing it to taking hormones which he heard that some other transgender people recommend but I don't think that's a dangerous comparison.
He's turned down the possibility of going down SRS route for the moment as he said he has a trans-phobic family along with the fact that the surgery is so expensive even with insurance. He doesn't have a job, no friends except me, almost about to fail his further education college course for not attending, psychiatrists believe he's a drug seeker for forging a benzo prescription so...things don't look to good but If you can tell me anything to keep his head up then it would be great.
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