Pride fest was here in santa ana this weekend, and I went along with a couple of pinball ladies that I have befriended. I was mainly there to enjoy drinks with the ladies, the actual pride part with bands and booths were secondary. We went to three different locations and had drinks and at each successive location the drinks seemed stronger and the conversation more personal. I was surprised just how many things the girls revealed to me. I think maybe I'm a good listener, or just I gave off the friend vibe. It made me feel wonderful that these ladies accepted me enough to talk openly. One girl in particular I really hit it off with. She's beautiful and tall, six foot, and hilariously complained that her fingernails were too manish. She liked mine better, which I laughed inside. Anyway, she's a geek like me, likes beer (rated every beer we had), and builds things. I can see us becoming fast friends.
It feels wonderful having an experience like this. I'm still feeling a little high from it. It seems weird, but I can see how this intimacy and closeness can be a craving. Maybe I will be less of an introvert the more I'm out.
Bari Jo