ToriJo, so far all of the fear and apprehension I have felt proved to be totally unfounded. No matter how much I try to think of bad outcomes, they never occur. I admit I do work and live in an area that is very tolerant, and I expect to have some bad experiences at some point, but so far the biggest obstacles I have had to overcome were all in my mind.
Thanks Laurie, there are already two women at work who have made comments about my figure, and they both want me to stop bringing in donuts and cookies! They are both friends of mine, and I really am enjoying the compliments. As a kid who wore pants with a 40-inch waist in 8th grade, I never in my life expected to look like this.
Tia Anne and Kathy Lauren, thanks for the compliments! I have always loved this look, but alas it would have been inappropriate for John! I look at the photos, and even though I took them I can't believe that is me. Now that I have the freedom to express my true self, I am going to indulge in trying to duplicate the looks that I have enjoyed seeing over the last several years, but I plan to avoid the parachute pants!
You hit the nail on the head Moni, there was not really much work to do today. Although I did hunt around on our systems for computer code I had written over the last 12 years change every instance of 'John' to 'Jessica'. There was really no point in that, but it made me feel better.