Thanks Danielle. When it became obvious she wasn't listening, I told her that there was no reason to continue the conversation because there is no way she could ever truly understand the pain in our lives. My 'friend' is moving to another workgroup soon and will be physically moving to another desk, so I probably won't see her very often anymore. I will remain civil with her and engage in small talk on occasion, but certainly nothing personal.
Yesterday I made a comment to Susan (my wife) about our friends. Specifically about how many new and wonderful friends we have made since starting this journey. In many cases they are people we never would have met otherwise. Some are new friends we have made on Susan's Place, while others we met because I have become so much more outgoing. It is so much easier to speak from your heart when you are not hiding part of your soul.
I may well have 'lost' a few people which I had considered friends at one time, they have just slowly faded out of my life, but the losses are far outweighed by the new friends we have made. In most cases we have a much deeper and richer relationship with our new friends, possibly because I am simply a much happier person who has stopped hiding the most beautiful part of myself. In fact,
@Steph2.0 now considers us part of her family, something no one else has ever said to us. Transitioning has affected my life in more ways than I had expected. It opened up a new world of friendships and family, I just had to open my eyes to see the possibilities.