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Jessica

January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Hi girls, I've searching for my middle name.  Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Thank you sisters, Jessica

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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KathyLauren

#1
January 25, 2018, 06:08:13 PM
For some reason, you look like a Jessica Anne.

I have no idea why.  I can't get that combination out of my mind when I look at your picture.  It's either a brain fart or a sign.  Not sure which.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Jessica_Rose

#2
January 25, 2018, 06:15:44 PM
Well 'Rose' is taken! How about Renee?
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
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GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
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"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot
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echo7

#3
January 25, 2018, 07:05:37 PM
I suggest picking a very unique name as a middle name.  Jessica is a very common name, which is great and especially helpful when you meet new people and need to introduce yourself.  But for a middle name it might be fun to have a very uncommon name.

for example:
Code Select
https://www.popsugar.com/moms/Unusual-Girls-Names-35275823
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Jessica

#4
January 25, 2018, 07:08:40 PM
Quote from: echo7 on January 25, 2018, 07:05:37 PM
I suggest picking a very unique name as a middle name.  Jessica is a very common name, which is great and especially helpful when you meet new people and need to introduce yourself.  But for a middle name it might be fun to have a very uncommon name.

for example:
Code Select
https://www.popsugar.com/moms/Unusual-Girls-Names-35275823

That is a very interesting idea.  Maybe look at an old Nordic name, like Freya or Sigi

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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steph2.0

#5
January 25, 2018, 07:38:33 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Iris


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Bari Jo

#6
January 25, 2018, 07:41:15 PM
I vote Kandi or Kara, either way you sign as JK which makes me smile:)

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Jessica

#7
January 25, 2018, 07:45:08 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:38:33 PM
Iris


- Stephanie

Your Hilarious Stephanie!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Lady Sarah

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January 25, 2018, 07:47:23 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Hi girls, I've searching for my middle name.  Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Thank you sisters, Jessica

To me, you look like a Jessica Lynn.
started HRT: July 13, 1991
orchi: December 23, 1994
trach shave: November, 1998
married: August 16, 2015
Back surgery: October 20, 2016
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steph2.0

#9
January 25, 2018, 07:48:20 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:45:08 PM
Your Hilarious Stephanie!

No?

Cornea? Retina? Sclera?


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Jessica

#10
January 25, 2018, 07:49:21 PM
Quote from: Lady Sarah on January 25, 2018, 07:47:23 PM
To me, you look like a Jessica Lynn.

Lynn is my actual sisters middle name.
So close!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Jessica

#11
January 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:48:20 PM
No?

Cornea? Retina? Sclera?


- Stephanie

Just not "bags"

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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steph2.0

#12
January 25, 2018, 07:52:54 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Just not "bags"

Ah yes. Darkcircle. Pinkeye. Cataract.

Just trying to help...


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Jessica

#13
January 25, 2018, 07:54:35 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:52:54 PM
Ah yes. Darkcircle. Pinkeye. Cataract.

Just trying to help...


- Stephanie

Sapphire!!!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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steph2.0

#14
January 25, 2018, 07:58:32 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:54:35 PM
Sapphire!!!

Twitch.

But seriously, I do kind of like Iris.

I really recommend thinking about what you love, what words describe it, and seeing what fits for you. Something Like Mopar Hemi.

You know what I picked for myself and why. It took a while to find it, but it really means something to me, and it's definitely out of the ordinary.

Stephanie Rhapsody Bensinger


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Gertrude

#15
January 25, 2018, 08:10:11 PM
Lauren


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Devlyn

#16
January 25, 2018, 08:13:00 PM
I like this game! Last time we played I won.  :)

I looked at your eyes and Jessica Pearl came to me.

Hugs, Devlyn

PS Iris is hilarious!
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Colleen_definitely

#17
January 25, 2018, 08:19:14 PM
Danger (you know you've made the joke, now you can live it too!)

Hmm, Jessica Death Metal Messiah Lastname sounds pretty awesome.

OK enough...

I chose Laurette because it was really high on my list of names I was choosing from.  But I have a couple of friends named Laura and didn't want to be creepy so Colleen won out.  Colleen Laurette really works with my one syllable last name. 

Do you have a second or third choice that might work as mine did?

I'm with KathyLauren on the Anne idea, it looks like it would fit you and it does roll off of the tongue nicely.  I could see Marie working as well.  Jessica Elise could work too.
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Jessica

#18
January 25, 2018, 08:20:40 PM
So many ideas!  I like exotic in my Nordic heritage, but my two closest girlfriends independently came up with Marie.  That may be a sign.

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Jessica

#19
January 25, 2018, 08:21:59 PM
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 08:19:14 PM
Danger (you know you've made the joke, now you can live it too!)

Hmm, Jessica Death Metal Messiah Lastname sounds pretty awesome.

OK enough...

I chose Laurette because it was really high on my list of names I was choosing from.  But I have a couple of friends named Laura and didn't want to be creepy so Colleen won out.  Colleen Laurette really works with my one syllable last name. 

Do you have a second or third choice that might work as mine did?

I'm with KathyLauren on the Anne idea, it looks like it would fit you and it does roll off of the tongue nicely.  I could see Marie working as well.  Jessica Elise could work too.

Omg, that's 3 votes for Marie!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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