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Started by Jessica, January 27, 2018, 12:58:41 AM

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Jessica

January 27, 2018, 12:58:41 AM
There is a lot of emphasis in our need to pass as women both physically and emotionally.  Emotions, I think most can do it.  Physical acceptance is the hardest for us.  When we picture ourselves as women we think we should project beauty as the number one attribute.
In the last week I have looked many women in the eye and studied their face. 50% of them I could say are they transgender?  The average success I think we should hope on is looking like 50% of cis-women with a lower percentage on each side of that success.

Smiles, Jessica Marie

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Megan.

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January 27, 2018, 02:54:09 AM
I know this is a sensitive subject for many.

My own personal view is that I would LIKE to pass but don't NEED to pass.
This is the difference that lets me just live my life and be happy when I walk out my front door every day.

The other big related thing is confidence. I've seen it said here many times that really owning your gender makes alot of difference. I keep my chin up, smile at people,  chat with them and they smile and chat back [emoji5]

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Jessica

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January 27, 2018, 12:44:02 PM
Quote from: Megan. on January 27, 2018, 02:54:09 AM
I know this is a sensitive subject for many.

My own personal view is that I would LIKE to pass but don't NEED to pass.
This is the difference that lets me just live my life and be happy when I walk out my front door every day.

The other big related thing is confidence. I've seen it said here many times that really owning your gender makes alot of difference. I keep my chin up, smile at people,  chat with them and they smile and chat back [emoji5]

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I agree with you Megan, it is a matter of owning who you are and just living life without that extra thought baggage!

Hugs, Jess

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Devlyn

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January 27, 2018, 01:09:28 PM
Owning it.  :)

When you walk your dog are you enjoying the  fresh air and sunshine or are you obsessing over what someone you  may or may  not run into is going to think about you. And what does it matter what they think of you? They aren't worrying about how you perceive them. Live your life in the world, enjoy the fresh air and sunshine. Own it.

Hugs, Devlyn
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KathyLauren

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January 27, 2018, 03:44:31 PM
What Megan said!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Jessica

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January 27, 2018, 03:56:03 PM

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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