Laurie, you spend most every day trying to help others. Not to maintain a public image, or for some form of personal gain, and not even just to make yourself feel better because you did something good. It is selflessness, pure and simple, a true desire to help, and it is so incredibly rare in today's world. Those of us who show up on this forum... As you well know, we're lost, scared, alone... To have you (and others here as well to be sure) reach out... to relate... to show people kindness when they need it most. I have zero doubt that at some point you have saved someone's life, whether you know it or not.