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Started by Shy, January 17, 2018, 02:38:45 PM

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Michelle_P

I am so proud to know Ms. Laurie Jeanette Wickwire, and have to congratulate here here as well as privately on taking this huge step forward. 

Next, all those fiddly paperwork tasks to get the various documents in line.  :)
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Devlyn

It's an amazing piece of paper, isn't it?  Congratulations, Laurie!  :-*

Hugs, Devlyn
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Karen

Congratulations Laurie.  Incredibly exciting to be part of your journey, and amazing how progressive Oregon is.  Hugs

Karen
Karen

* felt different like I did not fit, with strong feminine feelings and gender questions my entire life
* Sept 2016 - January 2017 real began to seriously question and research gender
* August 2017 friend explains transgender and gender vs sexual orientation, and immediately felt shock and begin to believe I maybe transgender
* March 2018 after 3 therapists, accepts I am transgender and am transitioning
* July 18, 2018 began HRT
* Feb 4, 2019 began Estrogen
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davina61

Well done , join the club (bit late but no internet) feels goooooood don't it.
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

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Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
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Laurie

Quote from: Cindy on May 18, 2018, 03:35:19 AM
And I have to find this out by trawling through your thread!!!!!!!


Congratulations Hon, I mean Laurie.

Lovely!!

  Thank you Cindy and I'm sorry I didn't tell you directly as I did a few. I told about 5 of my non Susan's friends today and some I have yet to tell. I don't think my head was on right after reading that paper. It is real.. official... I am Laurie.. really! OMG!  What have I done?

Love and hugs Cindy.

PS Monday is my 3 month tests again.
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Jayne01

Quote from: Laurie on May 18, 2018, 03:47:01 PM
  ....It is real.. official... I am Laurie.. really! OMG!  What have I done?

Slap!!! Shake!!! Hug!!!!!

Sorry, couldn't resist. [emoji16]

That was a friendly slap just so that you know this is real. You know, like when you pinch yourself so you know you are not dreaming. This is real girl!!! You are Laurie! You always were Laurie, now you have an official piece of paper reminding you this this real!

Congratulations.....again.

Hug,
Jayne
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Laurie

Quote from: Shy on May 18, 2018, 04:16:32 AM
Hi official Laurie ;D One of the most courageous, insightful, attentive, caring ladies I have ever had the pleasure to meet.

Peace and love and all that good stuff,

Sadie

Hi Sadie. Oh what nice words! Who is this Laurie you know. I'd like to meet her. lol  Thank you Hun.

Quote from: Charlie Nicki on May 18, 2018, 09:31:58 AM
Wow congrats Laurie!! That's a huge step.


And thank yo Dani. Yes it is a huge step and I thought I still had time to back out if it came to that. Somehow they just went ahead a ordered it. So it is living up to Laurie's legacy. The court changing my name already was unplanned;D ;D ;D

Quote from: Devlyn on May 18, 2018, 12:25:20 PM
It's an amazing piece of paper, isn't it?  Congratulations, Laurie!  :-*

Hugs, Devlyn

  Yes Devyln it is. I keep saying I am Laurie. I say it with awe. Somehow this piece of paper make those words different from all the other times I have said them. Hello, I am Laurie.  See? Aren't they awesome words?
  Thank you Dev.

Quote from: Karen on May 18, 2018, 01:41:34 PM
Congratulations Laurie.  Incredibly exciting to be part of your journey, and amazing how progressive Oregon is.  Hugs

Karen

  Thank you, Karen. I put this thread out here for everyone can see who I am. Good and bad I am in these posts for all to share. Yes, you and everyone that reads it are a part of my journey as I am a part of theirs. I just hope that my story helps someone else in their own journeys. I have been help by so many others here by sharing their journeys and their posts in mine. I thank everyone for their help.
  Yes, Oregon is a fairly accepting state for the LGBTIQ+ community. Those simplifying changes here and in Washington state were changed just this last January. I am so happy they did.

Quote from: davina61 on May 18, 2018, 03:29:36 PM
Well done , join the club (bit late but no internet) feels goooooood don't it.

  Hi Davina, I think the shock is wearing off and the "feels good" is setting in. OMG I am really Laurie!! This may take some time to get used to. I should be practicing my signature so I can actually write it when needed.
Thank you Davina. Laurie is born....  where's my cake?  lol

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Laurie

Quote from: Jayne01 on May 18, 2018, 03:55:43 PM
Slap!!! Shake!!! Hug!!!!!

Sorry, couldn't resist. [emoji16]

That was a friendly slap just so that you know this is real. You know, like when you pinch yourself so you know you are not dreaming. This is real girl!!! You are Laurie! You always were Laurie, now you have an official piece of paper reminding you this this real!

Congratulations.....again.

Hug,
Jayne

Yes Ma'am. Thank you Ma'am May I have another?

lol
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Devlyn

Quote from: Laurie on May 18, 2018, 04:30:03 PM
...

Yes Devyln it is. I keep saying I am Laurie. I say it with awe. Somehow this piece of paper make those words different from all the other times I have said them. Hello, I am Laurie.  See? Aren't they awesome words?

Thank you Dev.



You have awesome words. The best words. Everyone agrees your words Trump all others.  ::) :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
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Laurie

Quote from: Michelle_P on May 18, 2018, 12:02:15 PM
I am so proud to know Ms. Laurie Jeanette Wickwire, and have to congratulate her here as well as privately on taking this huge step forward. 

Next, all those fiddly paperwork tasks to get the various documents in line.  :)

  Thank you, Girlfriend. Michelle my belle. This is your fault. You made me do it. You with this silly idea of going on a cruise  sometime, somewhere and my needing a passport to do it. I didn't want more official documents in his name so I needed to submit those forms to change his name into mine. It's done. So it is all your fault!! I should make you work on getting everything else changed too. You Started all thins.
  Thank you Hon

Hugs & kisses,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Laurie

Quote from: Devlyn on May 18, 2018, 04:36:39 PM
You have awesome words. The best words. Everyone agrees your words Trump all others.  ::) :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn

   You Devyln... I see what you did there. Don't make me come out there again to smack you..

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Donna

You two are such characters. Congrats Laurie and that is just wonderful.
December 2015 noticed strange feelings moving in
December 2016 started to understand what my body has been telling me all my life, started wearing a bra for comfort full time
Spiro and dutastricide 2017
Mid year 2017 Started dressing and going out shopping etc by myself
October T 14.8 / 456
Came out to my wife in December 2017
January 2018 dressing androgenes and still have face hair
Feb 2018 Dressing full time in female clothing out at work and to friends and family, clean shaven and make up
Living full time March 1 2018
March T 7.4 / 236
April 19th eligard injection, no more Testosterone
June 19th a brand new freshly trained HRT and transgender care doctor for me. Only a one day waiting list to become her patient 😍

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LizK

I was so happy to hear from you yesterday showing me you have your Name approved. I can remember having the discussion with you some time ago and you were just so sure this would be something you could never achieve...yet here you are. Laurie I hope this give you the impetus to keep moving forward even when things seem impossible.

Congratulations what a great outcome

Take care

Your friend

Liz
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Laurie

Quote from: ElizabethK on May 18, 2018, 04:54:12 PM
I was so happy to hear from you yesterday showing me you have your Name approved. I can remember having the discussion with you some time ago and you were just so sure this would be something you could never achieve...yet here you are. Laurie I hope this give you the impetus to keep moving forward even when things seem impossible.

Congratulations what a great outcome

Take care

Your friend

Liz

  Thank you very much Liz. Yes I remember those conversations vividly. It did seem nigh on impossible then and very well could have been. It was a source of much consternation for me. Law changed and someone gave me the impetus to try and wow just look what happened.... I am Laurie!! Really.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Jayne01

Quote from: Laurie on May 18, 2018, 04:38:43 PM
  Thank you, Girlfriend. Michelle my belle. This is your fault. You made me do it. You with this silly idea of going on a cruise  sometime, somewhere and my needing a passport to do it. I didn't want more official documents in his name so I needed to submit those forms to change his name into mine. It's done. So it is all your fault!! I should make you work on getting everything else changed too. You Started all thins.
  Thank you Hon

Hugs & kisses,
  Laurie
A cruise??? That sounds like it might involve some planning. Will you be ok following a plan! You poor thing!  Have a (((hug)))
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Jayne
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LizK

Quote from: Jayne01 on May 18, 2018, 07:23:16 PM
A cruise??? That sounds like it might involve some planning. Will you be ok following a plan! You poor thing!  Have a (((hug)))
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Jayne

Be careful Jayne you will get yourself in trouble for "swearing" if you are not careful [emoji39][emoji39]


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Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Jayne01

Quote from: ElizabethK on May 18, 2018, 07:26:43 PM
Be careful Jayne you will get yourself in trouble for "swearing" if you are not careful [emoji39][emoji39]


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Oh, Laurie (officially) doesn't scare me. The worse she can do is give me a slap, which I am used to now. She can try putting me up on the fridge, but that would mean she has to come here to do so. I will gladly get on the fridge for that, she owes me some real life hugs.[emoji12][emoji16]

Jayne
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KathyLauren

Quote from: Jayne01 on May 18, 2018, 07:33:30 PMShe can try putting me up on the fridge, but that would mean she has to come here to do so.

Cruise = ccrossiing the ocean.  I'd watch out if I were you!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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sarah1972

Boat Trip? @Steph2.0 : Maybe time to start a new map  ;D

@Michelle_P: Guess time to book those cruise tickets :-) Laurie deserves a little treat for being so brave.

Quote from: KathyLauren on May 18, 2018, 08:30:24 PM
Quote from: Jayne01 on May 18, 2018, 07:33:30 PMShe can try putting me up on the fridge, but that would mean she has to come here to do so.

Cruise = ccrossiing the ocean.  I'd watch out if I were you!

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Laurie

Quote from: Jayne01 on May 18, 2018, 07:23:16 PM
A cruise??? That sounds like it might involve some planning. Will you be ok following a plan! You poor thing!  Have a (((hug)))
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Jayne

@Jayne01 ,

  Girl you are sooooooo gunna get slapped.  You know better than to use such words in reference to me and in MY thread yet!! Had you been paying attention you would have been aware that Michelle has that aspect already covered. I DO NOT make plans!
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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