This double standard REALLY pisses me off!

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There is also something to be said about women that dress provocatively, but whine when anyone pays attention. I mean, guys ain't even allowed to look. In most cases, when a guy dresses provocatively, he is shunned.

There is a difference between looking at a girl and feeling entitled to a girl because of the way she dresses. " Looking at " isn't inherently wrong. " feeling entitled to a girls time " is inherently wrong. I have met guys who were of the opinion that I owed them my time because I was wearing a skirt. Some men are very narcistic and don't take " no " for an answer.

[Julia1996]

There is also something to be said about women that dress provocatively, but whine when anyone pays attention. I mean, guys ain't even allowed to look. In most cases, when a guy dresses provocatively, he is shunned.

That's true. I don't dress provocatively often but when I have I expected attention from guys so it didn't offend or bother me. Tristan got very annoyed at other guys checking me out though. I reminded him he was the one who wanted me to wear that outfit. Guys want you to look sexy but then get upset if another guy checks you out. It reminds me of a dog with a bone saying look what I have but don't look too long. It's just another weird guy behavior I don't understand. Last summer I told Tristan not to take his shirt off in public, which he likes doing,  because I specifically didn't want other girls looking at him.

[Julia1996]

There is a difference between looking at a girl and feeling entitled to a girl because of the way she dresses. " Looking at " isn't inherently wrong. " feeling entitled to a girls time " is inherently wrong. I have met guys who were of the opinion that I owed them my time because I was wearing a skirt. Some men are very narcistic and don't take " no " for an answer.

Oh I know. Some guys act that way no matter how you're dressed. I've had guys act like they were doing me a big favor by talking to me and giving me their attention. Get away from me! God I hate guys who do that kind of thing!

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Oh I know. Some guys act that way no matter how you're dressed. I've had guys act like they were doing me a big favor by talking to me and giving me their attention. Get away from me! God I hate guys who do that kind of thing!

Ughhh exactly!
I even went on a date with a guy like that. A macho type who was talking about 101 ex girlfriends he had and then he told me : " I will add you to my collection. I seduce you, I have sex with you, date you and dump you " . The poor boy didn't realise that I am the one who dumps. Before he finished his sentence he had a jar of water over his pants and I left. He could pay my share of the bill. The least thing he could do for ruining my evening like he did lol

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Hi friends 

Let's watch the language please, you know better than that

[Julia1996]

Ughhh exactly!
I even went on a date with a guy like that. A macho type who was talking about 101 ex girlfriends he had and then he told me : " I will add you to my collection. I seduce you, I have sex with you, date you and dump you " . The poor boy didn't realise that I am the one who dumps. Before he finished his sentence he had a jar of water over his pants and I left. He could pay my share of the bill. The least thing he could do for ruining my evening like he did lol

Lol, OMG, what a total pig! I'm glad you put him in his place.

[Julia1996]

Hi friends 

Let's watch the language please, you know better than that

Sorry,