Quote from: Chelsea on June 03, 2018, 02:27:25 PM
Well Mom just told me that she can't accept me transitioning and never will. So........
I just lost my 82 year old mother I guess.
Dear Chelsea: So very sad to read your above post comment.
Well, if it is any consolation, you are not alone in this regard. There are lots of members hear that share your pain over personal relationship things like this.
I think that I have mentioned in my thread some time ago that when I officially announced my transition over three and a half years ago that my family... mom, dad, extended family and my long time best friends at the time basically disowned me and all but stopped talking to me... and it was only until last Christmas that when I called my parents on the phone that my mom, as her nervous and abbreviated conversation ended that she said goodbye Danielle. That is the very first time that my mom or anyone there called me by my female name. My dad still will not say more than a few words to me and does not even say my name... and my long term best friends still don't answer my calls or my emails.
As @Laurie stated in her reply... she has had her own disappointments with family and friend relationships and told you
"that is a hard one to take" "...in the end you have to do what you feel is right for you." ***... and
@Laurie , loosing your close relationships and then having your own serious personal issues can not be an easy thing to deal with... kudos to you for having the good attitude that you appear to show on the Forums.
I am sure that for you all of this is indeed very disconcerting and hurtful.... the good news for you is that your brother seems to accept you, so that should be quite comforting to you.
For me it has made me feel quite alone especially since I live so far away now... I am certain that you are having similar feelings.
Hang in there girl.... stay strong and determined.
As always, I will be looking for your continuing reports and updates.
Hugs and hugs...
Danielle