Indeed I am open to changes...
And with me starting hormones this year (End of April was the start of that), my endocrinologist said to wait 2-3 years before surgical alterations. 2020 would be the soonest on that timeline. But I don't think I will need much work, if any. I am already at a 40C breast size (Though I suspect my band has since dropped to 38 size from weight loss).
I do know I want to possibly get rid of a small ridge on top my nose, my double chin, and lower my hairline. But will see how the fat gets redistributed and the underlying bone structure. I have a BMI hovering between 34-35 so pretty overweight right now.
I don't think my cheeks will need any alterations. Growing up I needed glasses but never got them so I was squinting a lot and it built up muscle/fat in the cheeks. But will see how things go.
I put vocal surgery sooner on the list than the 2-3 year wait since estrogen will not effect voice.
As I mentioned earlier, the official start of my full time is open for debate. I began using my female name, presenting myself as female all the time and using female pronouns and facilities in May of last year.
However, WPATH mentions (I believe) that official name change is what a lot of clinicians use as the official start. Which would mean I have been full time for about a month now.
I kept the future plans labeled tentative as things will be added and removed, or moved up or back on the list as things change and as I get new information. But if there is anything I missed with anything, please let me know. I am open to ideas and suggestions. I do understand a lot of it will be based on my body reactions to the hormones.
Wife so far only objects to the actual Gender Surgery. That is still a long ways away so we will cross that bridge as things get closer. I suspect she is a closest asexual. But I am willing to compromise and not do that surgery, even though I want to. We shall see how things are in 2-3 years.
She also has an issue with society thinking she is a lesbian. Nothing unfortunately I can do to prevent her from being seen as such. Society has not separated gender identity and sexual orientation yet. But I believe this is more of an internal issue as everyone is overly critical of themselves.
It does feel that a lot of things right now is just in wait and see mode. Nothing major coming up I think this year, and probably not really much next year. Other than keeping up with hormones and letting them do their work.
I do know I need to practice and learn makeup skills. I am pretty good now with eyeshadow, but have not even touched mascara, eyeliner, eyebrows, eyelashes... And not confident in my contouring skills yet. I was going to go to the Sephora transgender class, but they swapped the dates around at last minute at our local store and I missed the class. But I do go often to my local JCPenny location and get quick tips and things every now and then.