Do I have a masculine body? (Goth photo inside)

[PurpleWolf]

I don't see anything masculine in that pic. Not your face, not your arms, not your legs, not your shoulders or body. You have VERY feminine arms btw. And feminine face. Etc. etc. etc.

[TicTac]

OMG not at all!!! I thought you were cis female!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I started reading and thought you were ftm so felt bad for you coz I didn't think you look masculine at all and thought I saw a pic of a girl  ! 100% honest!!! Well, obviously that's what you are - but I thought you wanted to appear masculine  !

Well you really don't. You look absolutely cis female.

Oh wow thank you for the compliment! 

[TicTac]

To me, it´s all femme.

Body shape or frame might be what it is, but if you look on the street or on the club, you notice that not all women have this super curvy body shape.

Oh yeah I know. Like you said not all Women have the curvy body shape, and that is fine. Besides wearing a corset I do not think there is a way to fix that anyways.

Thanks for the comment.

[sreyalp53]

I put the Goth warning in there as some people have a negative reaction to the look, so yeah.

Anyways, I have self hate issues (obviously lol) and I just don't like myself I guess? My body bugs me the most though, as I feel it might be on the masculine side, which I guess would make sense as I was born Male Unfortunately, and I did not start my transition until 21 (I am 23 now) 

Also HRT did not give me much as far as breasts go, so a bit on the flat chested side, although I am getting surgery to fix that, along with FFS next year.

Picture might be a bit hard to see due to everything being black, so I hope you can see lol

Here is the photo



Please judge a way lol. Please be 100% honest with me though, thanks.

oh yeah, I hope this post is not against the rules or anything, as I can't seem to find the rules area.

Very pretty

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[Sinclair]

You look like the girls I dated in college. There was a song by the Dead Milkmen about Punk Rock girls... *smiles*

*sings* "Just you and me punk rock girl...."

You look way fab by the way, you go girl! Love the look!!

[TicTac]

You look like the girls I dated in college. There was a song by the Dead Milkmen about Punk Rock girls... *smiles*

*sings* "Just you and me punk rock girl...."

You look way fab by the way, you go girl! Love the look!!

Thanks for the compliment! 

[TicTac]

Very pretty

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Aww thanks! 

[sreyalp53]

Aww thanks! 

Your very welcome  [emoji16]

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[BlueJaye]

I put the Goth warning in there as some people have a negative reaction to the look, so yeah.

Anyways, I have self hate issues (obviously lol) and I just don't like myself I guess? My body bugs me the most though, as I feel it might be on the masculine side, which I guess would make sense as I was born Male Unfortunately, and I did not start my transition until 21 (I am 23 now) 

Also HRT did not give me much as far as breasts go, so a bit on the flat chested side, although I am getting surgery to fix that, along with FFS next year.

Picture might be a bit hard to see due to everything being black, so I hope you can see lol

Here is the photo



Please judge a way lol. Please be 100% honest with me though, thanks.

oh yeah, I hope this post is not against the rules or anything, as I can't seem to find the rules area.

Gosh, I can only dream of looking half as female as you. I have no idea what your dynamic body language (walking, etc.) is like, but just standing there you look more feminine than many cis women.

[TicTac]

Gosh, I can only dream of looking half as female as you. I have no idea what your dynamic body language (walking, etc.) is like, but just standing there you look more feminine than many cis women.

Oh wow thanks for the compliment! I have noticed that most men and woman walk the same way, but that is just my observation and maybe I am wrong.

[KathyLauren]

oh yeah, I hope this post is not against the rules or anything, as I can't seem to find the rules area.

Hi, TicTac.  I see that you are fairly new here.  Normally we try to greet everyone properly when they first join the site, but perhaps you snuck in ungreeted.  If so, please accept our apologies.  I have linked some of the more important parts of the site below, including the rules.

Regarding your figure, I would say your body looks quite feminine.  With the black clothing, I can't quite tell the size of your rib cage, but the rest of your body looks slim and on the petite side.  Your shoulders aren't excessively broad, and your arms and legs aren't hugely muscular.   In fact, they are quite slender.  I would say you have nothing to worry about.

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[TicTac]

Hi, TicTac.  I see that you are fairly new here.  Normally we try to greet everyone properly when they first join the site, but perhaps you snuck in ungreeted.  If so, please accept our apologies.  I have linked some of the more important parts of the site below, including the rules.

Regarding your figure, I would say your body looks quite feminine.  With the black clothing, I can't quite tell the size of your rib cage, but the rest of your body looks slim and on the petite side.  Your shoulders aren't excessively broad, and your arms and legs aren't hugely muscular.   In fact, they are quite slender.  I would say you have nothing to worry about.

Things that you should read

Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By	Standard Terms & Definitions	Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)
Reputation rules	Cautionary Note	Photo, avatars, & signature images policy

It is okay, I mean it did not bother me or anything, as I am sure you guys were just busy and stuff. Also, thank you for the information!

I think my rib cage is a bit on the masculine side, but that is to be expect when you are born in a male body, and go through male puberty. All the comments I have received so far have definitively made me feel better about myself, although I hope me saying that does not scare off others who might hold a different opinion. Also, thank you for the compliment!

[Cassi]

Well, you do look like your avatar as far as coloring goes.  Body wise, no guy that I can see,

[TicTac]

Well, you do look like your avatar as far as coloring goes.  Body wise, no guy that I can see,

Thanks! I just love black and red AND stuffed animals, but more specifically skelanimals which is what the bunny avatar is from. I actually own that skull bunny plush in real life and I just love him!

[Jacqueline]

I think you look great. I was not fully goth when it started but followed and loved it.

My advice, which is just that, is hold off any breast modification for a few years. Most women don't fully grow into theirs till later 20's or early 30s. If you can wait, do it. I also wouldn't want you to suffer further than you have to dysphoria wise.

I think many of us here are familiar with self loathing and body issues. Someone said androgynous. Maybe, but you rock it girl. Give yourself some time, forgiveness and love. I wish I could look like you but that is too long ago. So, we all have our things...

Stay true to yourself. I wish you love, acceptance and a smooth journey.

With warmth,

Jacqui

[TicTac]

I think you look great. I was not fully goth when it started but followed and loved it.

My advice, which is just that, is hold off any breast modification for a few years. Most women don't fully grow into theirs till later 20's or early 30s. If you can wait, do it. I also wouldn't want you to suffer further than you have to dysphoria wise.

I think many of us here are familiar with self loathing and body issues. Someone said androgynous. Maybe, but you rock it girl. Give yourself some time, forgiveness and love. I wish I could look like you but that is too long ago. So, we all have our things...

Stay true to yourself. I wish you love, acceptance and a smooth journey.

With warmth,

Jacqui

Thank you for the kind words  I have been learning to like myself more, but at times i do dwell on things that I wish could be changed but can't.

I do not know if I can wait until my later 20s to see bigger breasts, as I am a bit impatient and I mean...they are just so small lol  Personally, I do not gain weight easily which is probably why they are so small but I don't know. I am so conflicted right now lol.

Yeah being goth is great although I am new to it. I have always wanted to be one during my teen years, but I did not want to be a goth boy so I dressed in normal clothing, but I did rock out to the awesome 80s goth bands I discovered during my teens. I did not know that you are goth...that is awesome!

So yeah, thank you again for kindness!

[Evienne]

Hey, judging from this picture, I without a doubt would not recognize you were born male if I just walked past you.

And btw, your hair is amazing, and your style is so cool!
You look amazing!

[TicTac]

Hey, judging from this picture, I without a doubt would not recognize you were born male if I just walked past you.

And btw, your hair is amazing, and your style is so cool!
You look amazing!

Thank you for the compliment! 

[Evienne]

Thank you for the compliment! 

You totally deserve it!
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Thanks for responding! ^^

[TicTac]

You totally deserve it!
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Thanks for responding! ^^

lol you're welcome