Do you feel female at all times?

[krobinson103]

Err good question. I feel like me. Me is female, but also keeps elements of the male I lived as. I'd have to say that I live and act female all the time and generally feel female 90% of the time.

[josie76]

Well what I don't feel is like I'm constrained anymore. I don't have to think about what I move like or how I say things (except for voice pitch, ehh  ). So what I do know is I don't pretend to be anything but my real self now.

[inenidok]

For me  i am a me i dont think of either sex,  at this time been on hormones since late December. I do know yesterday me and my wife went to a junkyard looking for parts for my 2 old 70s vehicles and it was bad weather rainning muddy etc so i wore my old male clothes most of the day and i felt so out of place. But we had fun, so i do male things still but i dont feel male. I honestly don't feel either way.

[jameswhiteshine]

I appreciate all your time to write down what you feel. I'd not exactly say I'm a gender non-binary person but I've a personality of a female who has few masculine features. There is a difference between a guy who has feminine features and a female who has masculine features and I feel like I'm the latter. I don't force myself to be a certain way except in public, I present as male. It's so ridiculous because I look androgynous in male attire but my voice makes it obvious that I'm male. I've 95 % feminine face and don't need makeup to pass as a female. However, I'm also quite muscular and need a decent wig to cover my shoulders to pass decently. I've lost 15 pounds without hitting the gym, yet I didn't lose muscle at all. I guess HRT would just melt those bulky muscles. My appearance and age would make it easier for me to transition but I always question myself. I just couldn't answer it all these years. I'm also a student and counselling is not exactly affordable either.

[pamelatransuk]

My parents knew I was showing signs of being trans since my childhood, in fact, I remember my parents telling me that there are transgender people when I didn't know they existed. Still, I was embarrassed of coming out as a transgender person because the transgender people that I saw back home was terrifying and had worse lives.

Sexually, I'm not attracted to neither sex and as weird as it may sound, I never watched porn. My anatomy disgusts me and I always keep myself busy to stop thinking about all these and when I get called 'sir' or referred to 'he/him' , it makes me wanna throw up. I loved it when I was called 'Ma'am' in phone before my voice eventually changed due to puberty yet I pretended to hate my once feminine voice because of peer pressure and society.

Hello Jameswhitershine

It appears to me that you are probably Transgender as you have regularly thought about gender issues and cis people simply don't think that way, Therefore I suggest you seek gender therapy when funds are available to you.

My view which is shared by most members here is that sexuality and gender are two separate unconnected subjects. You may be a transwoman with little or no sexual interest and that is completely acceptable and best describes me.

I wish you the best on your journey of exploration.

Pamela

[pamelatransuk]

In my social interactions I often feel invisible because the other person cannot see who I really am. No one is allowed to see the soft, silly, feminine person that I "feel" like. That feeling has been there since adolescence.


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Hello Anne

I feel the same way and sympathise completely. it is so aggravating that we cannot yet be PERCEIVED as female and TREATED thus.

Best wishes to you

Pamela