Well, my
Male Suitor #1 did indeed return a day after our group dinner date and he brought me another espresso (no pink lid however) .... a day after that I discovered that I now have a
Male Suitor #3 that brought me an espresso and chocolate chip cookies.(with the pink lid in the previous pic) more about him in a minute.
Oh, here is a picture I took on Saturday morning of the building where my office and the next door Coffee Shop is located....
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My blue vehicle is in the parking lot nearest the building, my office is way to the left and the Coffee Shop is 2 doors to the right .... pretty handy for sure, that is why I eat there a lot and grab coffee and take-outs to take to my office... and the owner and workers have gotten to know me quite well.
Anyway, back to
male suitor #1... again, I like this guy... sharp dresser, very polite and somewhat shy. He invited me to dinner again, this time making the point that it was just going to be the two of us... the date was the next weekend and I accepted the invitation.
NOTE: He must be a smooth operator, LOL... he
first softened me up with a group date, now the next date is just the 2 of us!!!
Well, the date went well, much like the first date, very attentive and all of that, I did dress up again, mainly because he always looks so sharp.... this time he gave me much longer and closer multiple hugs and kept reaching for and touching my hand when we had our hands on the dinner table as we talked.... and then, when he dropped me off, I think he was going for the kiss on my lips but we ended up doing another "on the cheek" kiss, actually 2 kisses, while he was hugging me very closely for what seemed like a very long time.... and very close indeed, I felt my boobs pressing against him. Hmmmmm
Male to Female hugs are so much different than
Male to Male hugs as I remember them.... when males hug each other, if they even hug each other instead of belly bumping (LOL), they were usually a quick and not so close hug, a couple pats on the back and it's over.
When an interested Male hugs an accepting Female, the hug is much closer, much longer, and with face to face contact.
I have since seen him at the next door coffee shop and we have exchanged brief pleasant conversations as we were ordering our morning espressos.
Probably more to be happening with
Male Suitor #1 in the future.... hopefully! I will keep you updated as things progress.
IMPORTANT HAPPENING: Oh, and I did bring up the
general subject of
transgenders and trans-women with
Male Suitor #1... we chatted about that for a while and he was not particularly negative about that subject, so perhaps the time is coming soon... and I will be relieved when it does happen.... after all it is
when, not
if....
I have been here as a woman for 18 months and frankly it is about time so I will be preparing my friends, clients and those in town that I see and talk to. ...
...Or the thought did run through my mind that
perhaps I am just fooling myself and he and everyone here
already know my "secret" ... I am aware that there are One Million and One Ways to give away my transgender and male past secret... who knows, I could have already done that and don't know it.... so if that is the case I need to relax and enjoy things here without my constant worry. I will definitely keep you posted about that too.
Now, about my new Male Suitor #3...... No, I didn't accidently bump into him at the coffee shop but he must have noticed me there as a daily customer and perhaps he asked one of the baristas about me....
So, after he showed up coming through my office door he surprised me and brought me my morning espresso (with the pink lid) and cookies ... he knew exactly what I like to order so I think the barista there "helped" him. He has dropped in again a few times later in the week to say hello.... He was kinda nervously stumbling over his words going on about on a near future weekend when the weather turns nice we could go for a walk or something and grab lunch... he even "joked" that he has a big umbrella for two and we could walk in the rain or snow. Nothing more to report on him yet.
... And at the gym in subsequent visits, that arrogant and pushy
Male Suitor #2 keeps coming on to me... and my female friends keep coming over to where I am working out to rescue me.... it is nice having friends in a situation like that.....
... oh and that reminds me that on that 2nd dinner date with
Male Suitor #1 and just the two of us,
one of my gym women friends offered to call me on my cell phone about the time that our dinner is in progress... I think that we girls call that a "rescue call" so if things with the date aren't going well we have an excuse to end the date earlier than planned.
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ELLIE: Please note that I will be writing more about HER soon!!So, that is it for now, it's 9:45am here and I got to my office early this morning at 7AM and my mid-morning break is over and I have a ton of work to do today. I will try to do another update later today if I can see light at the end of the tunnel with my work load.
I trust that you all have a wonderful day today.
Danielle
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