8:30pm Wednesday night: Hey all... t
hank you everyone for your supportive comments today after you read my big update and I met with the coffee shop owner at lunch time. I really appreciate my Susan's Place friends.
Actually I think that today was a
good day for me... sure there was quite a bit of negativity that came out today and unsavory things were said about me but this was a wonderful thing finding out who my real friends are.
I felt that was neat that the nice man told that lady to shut up when she was so belligerent and making derogatory remarks about me , I know who he is, he is a truck driver that comes to the coffee shop just about every day and we have had some casual and friendly conversations over coffee from time to time.
Initially I was very saddened when I heard about Suitor #1 and his woman friend that was demeaning me for being a trans-woman... I am glad that I found out now instead of later if I had invested more romantic interest in him. Good riddance to him ....
.and now I am retiring the Suitor #1 designation.
Oh and
@Jayne01 ... I did indeed go to the gym and blew off some steam. It seems that without me saying a word that my gym girls knew all about what happened at the coffee shop this morning,,, oh yeah, and my
dental hygienist suitor #4 is one of the ladies in my gym group today.... so I did not talk about my suitor issues but we talked about everything else. But they probably knew anyway... remember, it's a small town and all of them frequent the coffee shop.
I love my next door coffee shop... it is the town's gossip center, meet and greet center.... and the owner and the employees there are all my friends and supporters so if somebody goes in there and starts saying bad things about me, that accountant next door... they will get an earful from the owner of the coffee shop and a lot of the other customers and employees there that know of me.
One can't get away with much in a small town like this but the good part is that if one makes friends here, there is a good chance that are usually very supportive and loyal friends.
I am done with dinner.... and will be getting ready for bed in another 2 hours or so. I think I will put on my night clothes and sit down to relax with a book or perhaps some TV watching. I put on my propane stove to warm up a little, it is cold outside.... I just looked at the thermometer and it is now 39 degrees and falling.... burrrr.
I will probably write more tomorrow...
Again, I feel quite good about today.... I am a happy camper!!!
Hugs to all,
Danielle