I am the HUNTED PREY : Danielle’s Chronicles

[steph2.0]

We can make this simple, Danielle.

Put up a poll with the numbers 1 through 5. All of Susan's votes. Then you go with whomever has the most votes. Or, if you are into underdogs, the one with the least votes...

Simple. 

Katie

That's an interesting idea, Katie, but to vote rationally we would need more data. Much much more detailed and in-depth data. [emoji6]

Stephanie

[KatieP]

Interesting and cute plan but I will take a pass...

Two quotes come to mind:

-- It takes 10 bad ideas to come up with one good idea. Now we are only 9 away...

-- Everything should be as simple as possible, but no simpler.


I suppose it is appropriate to use your heart to decide a matter of the heart...



Katie

[Jayne01]

@KatieP
Dear Katie:
Interesting and cute plan but I will take a pass...
and follow my heart instead... which is a little confused and overwhelmed right now....
..  but I will keep every one of my followers updated as things continue to progress.

I just want to make it very clear to everyone however, I am not seeking a marriage proposal...
....  maybe something more like a longer term romantic relationship at this point.

Thanks for your posting and sharing your thoughts.
Hugs,
Danielle

Dear Danielle,

Take your time and try not to force your heart into making a decision. Just continue being yourself and let nature take its course. Things will eventually become less confusing and clearer to you. You will know when the time is right to make a decision and what that decision will be. Your intentions are genuine and I'm sure all 3 suitors can see that. They have all been willing to take things slowly, knowing this is a new, exciting and scary experience or you and you need time to process these new emotions.

I will repeat what I have said before in this post and other posts in the past. Just be yourself! The rest will evolve naturally.

Big humongous HUG!!!!

Jayne

[Northern Star Girl]

@KatieP
Dear Katie:
Well, perhaps a "vote" from my forums followers might be easier for me deciding as @Steph2.0  stated:

That's an interesting idea, Katie, but to vote rationally we would need more data. Much much more detailed and in-depth data. [emoji6]
Stephanie

Hmmm, well I already divulge a lot about my life endeavors... so as you have guessed,  there is indeed much more data but my lips are sealed.

Two quotes come to mind:

-- It takes 10 bad ideas to come up with one good idea. Now we are only 9 away...

-- Everything should be as simple as possible, but no simpler.


I suppose it is appropriate to use your heart to decide a matter of the heart...

Katie

So regarding letting my heart decide as you agreed, Katie, is where it all gets difficult for me...   

It is kinda going into a candy store to buy a candy bar, you have in your mind your 3 most favorite candy bars, and now you are at the store and see all 3 of them on display.... you can just about taste each one as you look at them and even hold them in your hand, but you can only choose one to be the premier choice that you will leave the store with.... 
             a conundrum for sure.

As I mentioned in my previous reply,
I am not necessarily looking for or even seeking a marriage proposal but perhaps something more like a serious relationship, much like in the past when a couple announced that they would be "going steady"

I will do my best to keep my thread updated.....
Thanks for  reading and posting
Hugs and hugs,
Danielle

[sarah1972]

Dear Danielle -

I know we are all a very hard to please crowd, deep down, however, we all know it is you and only you who can make any decision whenever the time is right. Don't let us pressure you in any way. I know you don't but sometimes it helps to be reminded.

There must be so much more to consider in any decision then we all imagine and I am sure your head is spinning. Maybe a short break from your crazy busy life might bring some clarity and you could embark on a quick getaway vacation to gather your thoughts.

No matter whom you pick, that person will be a very lucky one and I am sure you will let the others off with great compassion and care.

Stay strong! Hugs, Sarah

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So regarding letting my heart decide
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[steph2.0]

@KatieP
Hmmm, well I already divulge a lot about my life endeavors... so as you have guessed,  there is indeed much more data but my lips are sealed.

Sorry girls. I tried!

Stephanie

[Northern Star Girl]

Sorry girls. I tried!

Stephanie

@Steph2.0
Dear Stephanie ....  
No worries, I always have "weak" moments and I will most likely blab about some of the details.... 
it seems that when I am so happy that I just want to tell everyone!!!

As always I will keep it decent and respectful.
Thanks for your visits here, you and your thoughts are always welcome.
Hugs,
Danielle

[Katie Jade]

Danielle
Looking forwards to your blabbing, and I will be with you 100% when you make your decision eventually. We can all deliberate until the cows come home, but life needs to be seized by the .. errr.. whatsits...!!!!
Good luck and make someone happy, after all that what we all really need.

Luv n Hugz
Katie

[Northern Star Girl]

UPDATE 1A   September 04, 2018 Tuesday

Dinner with Shyguy Suitor #3
This was planned as a more formal dinner out and turned out to be casual, which was just fine with me.  He called me before I left for work to give me a heads up.   So, I still left work early, cleaned up and put on my more casual attire for the warmer day that it was.   
We ended up going out to dinner fairly early to a small diner on the other side of town, their specialty is fish and chips and baked salmon... we ordered one of each and shared with each other so we could sample both entrees....  it was wonderful.
After dinner I got a Vanilla Creme Frappuccino and he got and Iced Coffee Latte.

It was a wonderful evening.....   I should come up with new name for him,
...he is not so shy any longer.   


.... more updates coming.... >>>
Danielle

[Northern Star Girl]

UPDATE 1B   September 04, 2018 Tuesday

Shopping and dinner with Barista Suitor #5   A fun time shopping with this girl...
... and a nice dinner and conversation afterwards.



.... another update coming...
Danielle

[Northern Star Girl]

UPDATE 1C   September 04, 2018 Tuesday

..... now a day hike on Sunday with Dental Hygienist Suitor #4


one more update coming.... potluck picnic and game evening with the Gym Girls group.
Danielle

[Northern Star Girl]

UPDATE 1D  September 04, 2018 Tuesday

Potluck picnic afternoon and game evening with my gym girls group.
Picture of me with my empty baking dish that Lasagna was once in, all gone now!
With Dental Hygienist Suitor #4 ... she is part of the gym girls group.



Well, that is it for my busy 3 day Labor Day holiday weekend.
Hugs,
Danielle

[Northern Star Girl]

@Steph2.0  and all others that recently commented.....
Dear Stephanie and all:
I just posted 4 updates with photos this afternoon regarding my Labor Day 3 day weekend activities. 

So, here is more information that you were curious about...
...to enable you to cast an intelligent "vote"  ....

What say you.... and all of you???
I am more puzzled than ever now.   
Hugs,
Danielle

[islandgirl]

Well it does look like you had a great weekend! Right from the beginning, I let my opinion be known, #4, and that has not changed. This is also based on all the postings related to your experiences with her. As much as opinions are easily offered here on your thread, you know that it is up to you! So I will wait to hear that you have made you decision, yes, #4!

Oh about your avatar - WOW!


Hugs,
Kelly

[sarah1972]

Thank you so much for all the updates! What a busy weekend. I am glad you had so much fun.

I did notice a new haircut - I like it a lot! Fresh, modern, stylish and young. Looks really good on you. Oh, and of course the new avatar, stunning as always.

I am not sure, I should comment or vote, I do have a favorite which I am considering to revise. There are a few things noticeable in the pictures: The brightest smile is with #5 but the most familiar/intimate looks are exchanged with #4. Of course, these are only moments in time.

The updates certainly highlight your dilemma.

Hugs,

Sarah

[Anne Blake]

You, of course know, that the most wonderous times are when you are a bit out of your comfort zone. If there is no hurry to make a decision, enjoy the ride. Although you have probably noticed that the season of long cold nights is soon upon you and having a partner may be good before winter sets in.

Glad that I could help,
Tia Anne

[JudiBlueEyes]

Danielle thanks for the updates.  No judgement here as to what to do other than continue totally enjoying yourself with your friends!   BTW I did notice the new hairstyle and it looks very nice on you.  Go Girl!
Judi

[Jessica]

Danielle, let me tell you you absolutely gorgeous in your new avatar picture.
I remember when you were timid to post your picture. 
I remember coaxing you to adopt your online name. 
I remember you were nervous to start Hunted Prey.
I have watched you as a young woman in the wild north, hiding your past.
I've watched you face a dread fear of exposure and thrive.
You have grown, and with your adventures we all have too!
You truly have lived your aspirations to the fullest.
You are our Aspiringperson!
You are our Northern Star*Girl!
You are our Alaskan Danielle!
 
And golly gosh you are beautiful 🌸🌸🌸

Hugs and smiles from a California girl


@Alaskan Danielle

[Jayne01]

Dear Danielle,

To use your own words - WOW WHEE!!! What a busy and fun filled weekend you had. One day with each of your suitors. Each day was fun and enjoyable. I can understand you feeling so puzzled. My advice remains unchanged. Follow your heart. I will not offer you an opinion about who you should be with. That is not for me to say. It is a choice you will need to make. Who makes you feel like good friends hanging out doing fun activities? Who makes you feel a special warmth in your heart? Who can you imagine yourself having a long term romantic relationship with, doing everyday couple stuff with, not just the fun dating stuff?

Give yourself time to process your feelings. Maybe take some alone time to think things over. Love is not something you decide on, it just happens. Nobody here can tell you who is right for you, that is why I am not giving you my "vote" for anyone.

I have no doubt that you will make the right choice for YOU! Whether you choose one of your three current suitors, or someone new comes along to swoop you off your feet, enjoy the experience. You have such a wonderful personality, whoever you end up with will be a very lucky person.

Love your new avatar. You look amazing and your hairstyle really suits you.

Sorry if you were hoping for more guidance to help you choose your suitor, this really has to be your decision.

Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us. This is one of my favourite threads that I follow.

Hugs,
Jayne

[rachel de Corvus]

I agree, your new avatar pic is beautiful, Danielle!

I propose a thought experiment: We all vote, with the votes collected by one of us, then give them to you at a certain time--say 6:00 pm Alaska time on a certain day.

Then, at 5:58, you tell us who you are hoping it is. Sometimes when the coin is in the air, you can tell if you want heads or tails.    Alternatively, you might be clear, at least, on who you hope it is not.

rachel