Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on June 18, 2018, 04:24:30 PM
@kaitylynn : That is wonderful news. I would be more than stunned... my dad has said very few words to me since I announced my transtion over 4 years ago... he has only said my name a few times since then and it is my old dead name. My mom, on the phone, just recently said "goodby Danielle I love you" as we finished our conversation... that was a first from her... and i was stunned.
Thanks for posting your good report.
Hugs,
Danielle
A truly wonderful feeling! My dad had been consistently dead-naming me for the past 3 years, even when everyone else has figured it out and gets it right. This is a first and even if it is a small victory...it carries a lot of import. I lost my mom a few years ago. She was the first person I ever told my feelings to when I was about 10. There was no such words to describe what I had said, but it had an effect that I feel is just as good...
She began allowing me to participate in the lessons she was teaching my sister. This allowed me to learn about womanhood under her guidance and WOW, what a difference I feel it made!!!
It warms my heart Danielle, to hear that your mom acknowledged you in that way! Validating beyond anything our therapists can bestow, at least in my hierarchy of transitional happenings