So a few asked me about cities that my wife and I have looked into that are said to be friendly to trans. I think a lot of them are pretty typical. Seattle (we have cousins who would welcome us), Philadelphia (apparently a couple great trans friendly neighborhoods and a great hospital for my wife to work at), just outside Boston on the cape there is a neighborhood that is supposed to be amazing (also my sister-in-law lives in Boston and she will probably be the first person we tell, great woman), other places we have also found a few neighborhoods, Chicago, Sante Fe, Sacramento, Portland, of these I like Chicago the most. We live in Milwaukee there are a couple neighborhoods here but it might end up being too close to home. Although depending on who is accepting my wife thinks that with my education background there might be a job for me at the local hospitals in the gender therapy offices. I would like that a lot after my transition, but time will tell in our case, we are trying to make as many plans as possible.
The hard part for my is that my current job is about AODA education in schools, which is a huge passion of mine, and I'm the front man of the company and our CEO wants to start sending me out to out of state places because we have a real opportunity to spread our company and help prevent and get teenagers away from drugs, alcohol and tobacco. So I have a real dilemma on my hands when it comes to that because I am very passionate about my job.