6 week update - and well, there really isn't anything much to say. Nothing else has changed. He had another few days of being HORRIBLE and grumpy and irritated with everything, shouting at me and the kids about the slightest little thing - this was exactly a month since the last time - could it be a version of PMT? Other than that, he is still pretty well the person he's always been. No great transformation...
Other than that, we're good. Just having a nice family summer, as usual. He looks the same as usual to the outside world and he seems pretty happy with that. We know we need to talk through things again soon, but neither of us wants to put any sort of downer on what is our 'happy time'. Not sure if I've mentioned before, but from August to May, he works away a lot and we have a very disjointed time as a couple and a family, so June and July is our annual 'normal' family time, and we are making the most of it. There are still things which are upsetting me a lot, and I still cry most days, but less so recently.
Sexually, we are still doing ok, thank heavens. I just wish his breasts and nipples weren't such a massively important part of our lovemaking. While I like making him happy and knowing how to turn him on, there are times when I find the breasts a real turn off too.
A question for those of you whose wives are with you. Do they now identify as lesbians? Are they happy having lesbian sex? This is still something I'm having a hard time getting my head round. I'm getting there, but I just can't think of myself as a lesbian. But I guess while he's still presenting male, I probably don't need to as I mostly think of him as a man still. Except in the bedroom....