While it seems simple my understanding of essence as it relates to gender is our experience is very yin yang. I was born with a dominant Mother and a dominant twin sister and have shared fantasies about becoming my wife's slave. I believe myself to be very feminine with biological attributes that are female, and a consciousness that is emotional If not sensative.I believe essence to be very much like a positive or negative charge that male and female existed long before the concept of humanity. I have lived through what I was intended to live through on the male spectrum, and have reconciled with my inner conscious as being of a primarily female essence.