I had a different doctor, but:
After about 3 weeks I stopped wearing actual pads, and switched to pantyliners. I am about 6 weeks post-op and discharge is there, but pretty minor.
I don't know about the stitches, I mean I can see the lines where the labia minora/majora connect and where they meet which I had some damage in, but I don't feel any obvious stitches lower than that, if I have any they certainly aren't bothering me, pretty sure the ones I have had are the dissolving type anyways as there is no appointment to take them out on the schedule.