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Started by Donica, September 01, 2018, 11:25:27 AM

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Laurie

Wow! Donica CONGRATULATIONS!! on everything. Yes I have missed a lot as I haven't been online for long enough periods to keep up with people I'd like to. Just go on leaping past me as I drag my feet waiting on Kaiser here. Well okay I didn't turn in my letters to them yet because I haven't gotten them from the VA yet. That should happen next week.  I am glad you are being approved and will be getting FFS soon. EXCITING for sure for you.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Donica

Sorry it took so long to get back to you Laurie. It's been a little hectic around here the past few days. Thank you for your warm comments. You know the drill. Consistent phone calls and emails to the VA to get your letters. I believe I mentioned to you before that you will love Kaiser.

They are getting easier and easier to work with all the time. Trans care has been a learning curve for them in dealing with the high number folks seeking services. New facilities are opening everywhere in SoCal now, making it easier to handle the work load. The waiting period for FFS in SoCal in now only 2 to 3 months. I hear they are working on opening new facilities in NorCal too.

Hugs,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Jessica

Donica, I have just caught up on your thread and I am feeling elated on your recent successes.
You also give me food for thought when it comes to California changing your name on documents.  I too, as you know, live in California.  One question is about your birth certificate....we're you born in CA?  I was born in Washington and think I would need to go through them.

Hugs and smiles from another California girl

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Donica

Quote from: Jessica on November 11, 2018, 11:35:17 AM
Donica, I have just caught up on your thread and I am feeling elated on your recent successes.
You also give me food for thought when it comes to California changing your name on documents.  I too, as you know, live in California.  One question is about your birth certificate....we're you born in CA?  I was born in Washington and think I would need to go through them.

Hugs and smiles from another California girl

Dear Jessica! Yes, I was born in North Hollywood, California. Your court order will include a order to amend your birth certificate. You will need your origional birth certificate to fill out the VS24 form properly. You may want to check but I believe you just need to mail your VS24 form and certified court order and a check to Washington's Vital Records department. Of course you will need to go to their website to find the fees associated with issuing an amended birth certificate. It helps to mail a photo copy of your original birth certificate with your paper work. This will aide in showing them the correct items you are changing.

Let me know how it goes Jessica!
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Donica

Some where on the forums I posted about volunteering the help out at this years Diversity Collective Ventura County Trans Day Of Remembrance ceremony. That day was last night. It was an emotional overload. There was not a dry eye in the house. I'm glad I was with good friends.

We chose to celebrate the lives of our fallen brothers and sisters rather than mourn their passing. It was a beautiful ceremony and I was proud to have been a part of it. It was be so nice if we never had to hold these ceremonies ever again.

A few of my close TAV and Kaiser support group brothers and sisters.


A candlelight vigil in celebration of their lives.


Hugs,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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KathyLauren

Thank you for posting about your TDoR commemoration event.  And thank you for volunteering!

I love your new avatar!
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Donica

Thank you Kathy!

Just one more small emotional moment. I just got my news bank checks with my new name on them. One more step towards happiness.

Love,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Donica

My close brothers and sisters and I have decided to participate in West Hollywood's TDOR commemoration event this evening. I understand there will be a march in honor of our fallen friends after the ceremony.

Hugs everyone,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Donica

I managed to make it through last nights West Hollywood TDOR with minimal tears. I met a lot of wonderful people. The event got started late and a few people didn't get a chance to speak. One of my friend was understandably not feeling up for the march. She is only 11 days FFS post-op. So we ended the evening early. I just wanted to say, We have more friends than we know.

Hugs,
Donica.   
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Donica

I would like to wish all of my fellow Susan's Place friends a Happy Thanksgiving!

<<<Happy Thanksgiving Everyone 2018>>> :icon_bunch:
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Donica

Just one more small step. I have an appointment today for a CT Facial scan for FFS through Dr. David Kim. I was not expecting it to cost me $205 out of my own pocket but, I have it covered.

I had a nice Thanksgiving dinner yesterday. This is my 6th year at cooking holiday dinners by myself. I'm getting pretty good at it. I hope all the food doesn't hurt my CT Facial lol.

Hugs,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Jessica

Quote from: Donica on November 23, 2018, 12:13:03 PM
Just one more small step. I have an appointment today for a CT Facial scan for FFS through Dr. David Kim. I was not expecting it to cost me $205 out of my own pocket but, I have it covered.

I had a nice Thanksgiving dinner yesterday. This is my 6th year at cooking holiday dinners by myself. I'm getting pretty good at it. I hope all the food doesn't hurt my CT Facial lol.

Hugs,
Donica.

Donica... are you going to ask for your money back after they say, "you are a lovely lady already"...?  Your newest avatar proves that..🌸🌸🌸

Hugs and smiles from a California girl

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Donica

Your so sweet Jessica. Thank you girl!!! Upon returning home from my CT facial scan today, I found my new drivers license waiting for me in my mailbox. I'm so surprised as it does look very feminine. Oh dear squeeeee!!!!
Quote from: Jessica on November 23, 2018, 12:43:58 PM
Donica... are you going to ask for your money back after they say, "you are a lovely lady already"...?  Your newest avatar proves that..[emoji254][emoji254][emoji254]

Hugs and smiles from a California girl

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Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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KathyLauren

Quote from: Donica on November 23, 2018, 07:31:28 PM
Your so sweet Jessica. Thank you girl!!! Upon returning home from my CT facial scan today, I found my new drivers license waiting for me in my mailbox. I'm so surprised as it does look very feminine. Oh dear squeeeee!!!!
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So, not only your new license, but also a decent photo?  Wow!  That is squeee-worthy!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Donica on November 23, 2018, 12:13:03 PM
Just one more small step. I have an appointment today for a CT Facial scan for FFS through Dr. David Kim. I was not expecting it to cost me $205 out of my own pocket but, I have it covered.

I had a nice Thanksgiving dinner yesterday. This is my 6th year at cooking holiday dinners by myself. I'm getting pretty good at it. I hope all the food doesn't hurt my CT Facial lol.

Hugs,
Donica.

@Donica
Dear Donica:
This is all good news.  Unless you are destitute, $205 is a small price to pay to get closer to your transition goals.
Also great news regarding your Thanksgiving cooking expertise andI hope that you had a wonderful Thanksgiving day.

Oh, by the way, what is the final status of how you and your property survived the fires in your area ???
... I trust that all is OK.

Thanks for sharing and keeping us all up to date on your thread.
Hugs,
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Donica

@Jessica, @KathyLauren, @Alasken Danielle

My dear friends! Thank you for your kind words.

For sure Kathy! How often do we really like our DL pictures? How rare is that!

Hi Danielle! Not destitute but when living on a fixed income, I can use all the help I can get. I just qualified for MFA so maybe I can recover that CT Facial expense. If not, no big deal. It's money well spent.

The Woolsey Fire in SoCal is 100% contained. I'm thankful for our Simi Valley Fire Department for managing to stop all the fires in Simi before they got out of control. I am surprised that the major fires went around us. Unfortunately all the surrounding communities took the full brunt of the fires. Oak Park and Thousand Oaks, (mountains to our west), Westlake and Malibu, (mountains to our south), Calabasas and Chatsworth, (Mountains to our east), suffered devastating losses.

The Camp Fire in Paradise NorCal is now 95% contained and suffered much more lose than SoCal. 84 dead with thousands still missing, 14,000+ homes lost. It's horrible to see whole communities of homes burnt to the ground and the trees around the homes still standing.

The new threat we face are the floods and mud slides from rain because of the burned out vegetation in our mountains no longer holding the soil in place. Everyone is bracing for the rains heading our way later next week.

It's going to be another nasty winter, possibly worse than last year because of the much larger fires we've had this year. This whole mess is certainly getting old.

Along with the TDOR's and mass shootings we've recently gone through, it's hard to remain positive when so many bad things are happening around the world. Thank God for the good things that happen.

Fighting to stay positive always,
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Jessica

@Donica

Quote from: Donica on November 24, 2018, 02:19:55 PM
Jessica[/member]]@Jessica, KathyLauren[/member]]@KathyLauren, @Alasken Danielle

My dear friends! Thank you for your kind words.

For sure Kathy! How often do we really like our DL pictures? How rare is that!

Hi Danielle! Not destitute but when living on a fixed income, I can use all the help I can get. I just qualified for MFA so maybe I can recover that CT Facial expense. If not, no big deal. It's money well spent.

The Woolsey Fire in SoCal is 100% contained. I'm thankful for our Simi Valley Fire Department for managing to stop all the fires in Simi before they got out of control. I am surprised that the major fires went around us. Unfortunately all the surrounding communities took the full brunt of the fires. Oak Park and Thousand Oaks, (mountains to our west), Westlake and Malibu, (mountains to our south), Calabasas and Chatsworth, (Mountains to our east), suffered devastating losses.

The Camp Fire in Paradise NorCal is now 95% contained and suffered much more lose than SoCal. 84 dead with thousands still missing, 14,000+ homes lost. It's horrible to see whole communities of homes burnt to the ground and the trees around the homes still standing.

The new threat we face are the floods and mud slides from rain because of the burned out vegetation in our mountains no longer holding the soil in place. Everyone is bracing for the rains heading our way later next week.

It's going to be another nasty winter, possibly worse than last year because of the much larger fires we've had this year. This whole mess is certainly getting old.

Along with the TDOR's and mass shootings we've recently gone through, it's hard to remain positive when so many bad things are happening around the world. Thank God for the good things that happen.

Fighting to stay positive always,
Donica.

Thankfully the air here in the Bay Area has been scrubbed clean from the rain we just had.  It's a bit late though for many in California.  🤦‍♀️

Hugs from another California girl

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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davina61

And why wouldn't your photo on drivers licence look fem. Nice to see your safe from wild fires.
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Donica

Just a tiny update. I have an appointment to get permanent eyeliner tattoos tomorrow afternoon. It's a bit spendy but for me, the worst thing about makeup is applying eyeliner. These old hands are just too shaky these days to do a good job. This will be the only tattoos I've ever gotten.

Hope everyone is doing well.
Donica.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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dee82

Have fun, Donica! Is that the right word? Hope it's not too painful.

~Dee.
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