Quote from: Ashley Michelle on January 03, 2008, 02:52:20 PM
how about forcing your non-beliefs on others by mocking or attacking what they believe? same thing?
ashley
I spend quite a bit of time on religious and spiritual forums watching the slinging matches between atheists and (mostly) christian theists, and it never ceases to amaze me how similar they seem. Sadly, many people seem to feel the need to destroy the beliefs of others in order to feel secure about their own.
One of my favourite books is a collection of essays called "Rebels and Devils: The Psychology of Liberation". One of the essays attempts to define morality from the ground up on a logical, non-spiritual basis, with some very thought-provoking results.
The author starts off by defining mankind's core condition as the ability to make personal choices, and so defines the basis for his moral system as the right and ability to choose - Any action I take that increases the overall capacity for free choice is morally good, while the opposite is morally bad. So stealing from another is wrong because I limit his choices to make use of whatever I stole, or killing is wrong because I take away the capacity for choice altogether. He then further makes the distinction between a Right and a Preference, with the difference being that having a Right denied me limits my actual capacity for PERSONAL choice, while a Preference merely enhances choices. Rights supersede Preferences, quite obviously. So it might enhance my choice to listen to a certain type of music by listening to it very loudly, but if that Preference interferes with my neighbour's Right to choose a good night's sleep, then I should use my headphones.
The Preference of sharing my beliefs with others in this framework, would then only be morally acceptable if it did not interfere with their right to hold their own counsel and have their own thoughts. If they invite you to debate stuff or visit a forum where these things are discussed, they are making that choice, but outside of that, it's not right to preach, belittle or otherwise attempt to undermine.
The final conclusion he comes to is very similar to the Wiccan Rede, The Golden Rule, Aleister Crowley's Do as thou Wilt, etc. I think the idea of morality based on Free Will and choice is a universal we all have kinda built into us, despite whatever other philosophies might be layered over it.
Unfortunately I can't remember the author's name, because he explains the whole thing MUCH more eloquently and clearly than I do, but the entire book is well worth a read. It's edited by Christopher Hyatt, and I think it's still in print.
Anyway, hope that answers the question.