Hi J,
We're happy that you have found us, even more that you've found yourself and (hopefully) someone to be with while the world swirls around you.
Although my world is different (quite mature closet crossdresser) I've found a lot of interesting information and thoughts here. And I've felt comfortable enough to make comments, and to even start threads sometimes. And I'm still startled to discover what a wealth of knowledge is available here. I've found answers to a lot of my questions and I've found discussions about things that I had never even considered. I think you'll find Susan's a good place to visit also.
As Danielle said, read some of the intro stuff (and, when you have time, check out her thread "I am the Hunted". Some day you may also find yourself going through similar stuff.) Anyway, I often like to let new people know that they move up in "status" once they've posted like 15 or 16 times which allows them more freedom about the place.
So welcome to Susan's. We're happy you're here.
Carolina