Fiance to Pre-MTF

[Grad0507]

Hi, I'm the fiancé to a male crossdresser. He will go full MTF after we have kids. We have not met the in-laws yet, and those are the people I am most concerned about as both families are conservative Republican.


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[Alice V]

Hey!

It's always a pleasure to meet people who staying with us despite transition. I believe you making your fiance life much better with all support you provide
You know, you will live with each other and probably not with your families, so they have to deal with it. You may try to explain stuff to them and try to make them understand the fact that people born with this. You can also try to say that your sweetheart will live and work and do everything more efficiently with right body without being under press of disphoria.

You also might wanna take a look at this subforum.
Nice to meet you and welcome here

[yella]

Hi there! 
Glad to hear that there are supportive people like you

[Grad0507]

Thanks @Alice V and @yella


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[Northern Star Girl]

Hi, I'm the fiancé to a male crossdresser. He will go full MTF after we have kids. We have not met the in-laws yet, and those are the people I am most concerned about as both families are conservative Republican.


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@Grad0507
Dear Grad0507:
I am most pleased that you had decided to join the site.
Thank you for writing your first posting.... other members will be along to offer their thoughts and comments in response to your specific questions and concerns..

Thank you for posting your thoughts here on this thread. 

This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
    There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.

    Please allow me to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place. 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.

    As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
     ***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

    Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
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[Northern Star Girl]

Hi, I'm the fiancé to a male crossdresser. He will go full MTF after we have kids. We have not met the in-laws yet, and those are the people I am most concerned about as both families are conservative Republican.

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@Grad0507
Oh, and another thing Grad0507:
THIS IS IMPORTANT INFORMATION FOR YOU:

There is a Significant Others  sub Forum here that you may find informational as you start browsing through the various threads there;
                https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,26.0.html

Best wishes to you, and again Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

[DawnOday]

It is a struggle with our mates, but in my opinion, Are you marrying for love or did you marry for sex. In 35 years I have not desired sex with my wife. I can count the times on all my fingers and toes. When I was 42 and got heart disease ,I  could not have sex with my wife. Wait, please do not read anything into that. My wife is my rock and I rely on her to keep me sane and we have a very robust love respect and intimacy with each other. Perhaps it's holding hands as we walk. Maybe giving a hug when it is not expected. Maybe it is just looking in each others eyes and knowing you have an ally. As with any good relationship, keep the lines of communication open and don't be afraid. Just as you should not fear the relatives. Listen to what they have to say and then graciously remind them that you respect their lives and you expect the same from them or you are prepared to go different ways. I've had to do that with some long time friends. Some I have known since kindergarten 61 years ago. Good luck.

[V M]

Hi Grad0507 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

[Grad0507]

@DawnODay, did I give the impression that I was marrying for the wrong reasons? I don't feel like responding to judgment.


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