After 4 months of back & forth trying to get a referral for a consultation I finally had my appointment today! It almost didn't happen again today but everything aligned at the last moment. My faith in the system is still not fully restored; I'm sure surgery approval will unfortunately be a pain too!
I really liked the doctor, he was very upbeat, forthright and open. I felt very comfortable in his presence. (Even having to bare my boobs to him) He is a very experienced plastic surgeon, not so much with top surgery though. He's only done one and it was recently. Nonetheless, after talking with him and hearing his plan I am on board. He did offer to see if the other guy would be willing to talk to me.
I've reached out to my gender therapist for an appointment to get a surgery letter; hoping that can happen in the next week or so.
I did find out that the surgeon is scheduling into next year already, so much for getting this done by year end.

So thrilled to have this first step out of the way and moving forward with the next steps.
Perry