I was in a similar position. I considered starting HRT back in 2002 but didn't want to cause issues for my daughters (ages 4 and 6 then). During my first appointment I was nervous as hell. At my second appointment four months later I was smiling ear to ear, which was a good indication that HRT was the right path for me. Initially I went every four months, but after the first four visits they were stretched out to every six months.
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Love always -- Jessica Rose