I realize that a public restaurant should be clearly open to all. I was wondering if we as mtfs are invading gay and lesbian establishments if we are patrons, and not also guests of gay or lesbians?
I have been reading online that the greater public acceptance of gays and lesbians, neighborhood gentrification, cis-women having bachelorette parties at gay and lesbian establishments, and so on have contributed to less of a gay and lesbian environment in many gay and lesbian bars and restaurants.
Futhermore, because of greater gay and lesbian acceptance, gays and lesbians are far more comfortable going anywhere, and this is causing gay and lesbian establishments' business to often slow down, resulting in some gay and lesbian establishments to close.
While one can say that our money is good as that of gays and lesbians, that these gay and lesbian establishments are public places, I am a woman sensitive to others, including the feelings of gays and lesbians that their gay and lesbians venues are perhaps being eroded by transgenders or straight people. Further, as some online articles state, there are various types of gay and lesbian bars and restaurants. Look at articles on the Internet about all of this, as that can make for interesting reading and you can see diverse perspectives.
I suppose we could say, go, why not, if you do not feel comfortable there, do not return.
But I do care about people's feelings, not just mine. Thoughtfulness can go a very long way.
What do you think about this, should we just go, or go if as a guest of a gay or lesbian, or go if a lgbt supporting event or meal is being held at that gay or lesbian establishment?
Chrissy