Quote from: dee82 on December 09, 2018, 04:01:09 AM
Well, I am feeling encouraged now.
That's one "out there" roommate you have/had.
Oh, the hand washing? Don't worry about that IAmM, I always wash them. Seeing men who do not is so gross, so much so, that I am one of those who always figures out how to open the door without touching it on the way out because I know many grubby unwashed hands have touched it before me.
If washing hands in the Ladies is a requirement for fitting in, I'll be right at home.
~Dee.
Yes, she is way out there and so much fun. She is one of the worlds premier gossips but my life has always been better with her in it. She was actually the first person other than myself that touched my breasts. Kind of odd because I don't think she is bi or interested in women, but she is obsessed with boobs, likes to look at them and likes to touch them. We were at a giant fear fest place with haunted houses, chainsaw massacre hay rides and things like that. We were in one house and she is behind me with her hands around my waist and alternating between looking over my shoulder and burying her face in my back and a zombie grabs me out of nowhere. When I can breathe again she has one of my boobs in each hand and giving them a good grope. When we got out of the house she says,'I so felt you up in there.' Yep, I was there. 'You don't mind?' No I have been waiting for you to take your chance for months now. I usually don't mind going along with her insanity, she is one of the gems in my life.
Just playing with the washing your hands thing.
Still ( please wa.... )
I am glad you feel better about using the bathroom. It is scary but it can be done, hopefully you will see after that is not so bad.
Sorry everyone for my one post. I feel that gaining acceptance has to come from people repeatedly seeing us as just trying to be a girl. We have been used as a way to push agendas and people don't really like having things pushed on them. Most will more than generously give us the chance to be ourselves, I see this as an opportunity to let them accept us and not put ourselves in opposition.
I have been thinking about conversation in the restroom. It is not common unless it is with a friend but it does happen.
Besides the Ren Fair. Let's see.
Stopped at a rest stop late at night and in the middle of nowhere. No one was there, a maybe 60-65 year old woman comes in as I am washing my hands. She sees all of the cow that I am and sighs in relief. Then asked if I could wait until she was done so we could go to our cars together. Of course I did and we talked as she went to the bathroom all the way until we got back to our cars. I couldn't tell you what we talked about, we were just happy having someone else there with us.
Gettysburg tour our bus stoped at McDonald's so we could get something to eat and go to the bathroom. A woman about my age from another tour bus came into the restroom with me. We talked about what we had seen and how her husband and my boyfriend were having so much fun and constantly comparing what they know (aka showing off how much they know) with the tour guide. Less than five minutes but my best laugh all day.
Maybe two months ago at the horse races. I wore a dark summer dress with tights to keep warm. I did carry my sweater but was too warm to wear it. Every race I go in to make my $5 bet there is a couple by the door and the woman is staring at me. Went to the restroom before we left and she is there. She asked me if I was cold, I rarely get cold and don't know why. She said how amazing I looked and she wished she was young enough to make a dress like that look good. I told her that I am 48 and not exactly young. No way, really? Anyway we talked about dresses and horses until she sat back down with her husband and my boyfriend and I headed to the car.
Not much after all but it does happen.
Sorry for the stories.