I'm on the verge of actually coming out now...

[930310]

Today:

[Linde]

You are a pretty girl, you just have to want to be one!  Your smile makes your face looking so much nicer, and with some clever make up, you can cover the scar pretty well!  I think you have great looking eye that need not much auf highlighting at all  You have very nice hair, and you can be a really cutie if you want to be one!

[930310]

I really do not like my smile since I myself think that I look hideous. My eyes are done with some eye shadow and mascara. I'll have to learn how to cover my scar. I put a lot of concealer on it/them but they still show through...
I want to be cute but I can't seem to get any further.

[Linde]

I really do not like my smile since I myself think that I look hideous. My eyes are done with some eye shadow and mascara. I'll have to learn how to cover my scar. I put a lot of concealer on it/them but they still show through...
I want to be cute but I can't seem to get any further.

For the case that your scar is pretty hard and rigid, you can get it way softer by doing scar massage several times a day!  With a little luck it fully blends into the rest of your facial appearance.
I am not good in makeup, because I was blessed with a skin which hardly needs any of that stuff, and thus I cannot give you any advise what to do with it.  But there is YouTube and members here who can help!
Your smile makes your face looking so much more friendly, no matter what you think about it!
I would put more color to the eyebrows, and probably shape them a little.  A few locks into your hair and you are a really pretty girl!
You just have to want to be pretty, and not talk your self down, positive thoughts will radiate out, and help you to look even better!

Linde

[DawnOday]

I really do not like my smile since I myself think that I look hideous. My eyes are done with some eye shadow and mascara. I'll have to learn how to cover my scar. I put a lot of concealer on it/them but they still show through...
I want to be cute but I can't seem to get any further.

Here are some instructions to fade scars.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/142044-10-remedies-for-fading-any-kind-of-scar-quickly-and-effectively

[930310]

I am letting my eyebrows grow out at the moment and I will try shaping them once they are a bit fuller. The scar isn't hard, it's just that it creates a groove in my skin that is deep. I guess that the key to success is positive thinking. I guess that I have to learn how to do that.

[930310]

Here are some instructions to fade scars.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/142044-10-remedies-for-fading-any-kind-of-scar-quickly-and-effectively

My scarring is 8,5 years old so I don't believe that they'll get any more "healed".

[Linde]

My scarring is 8,5 years old so I don't believe that they'll get any more "healed".

You got it little sister, positive thinking is half of it!  And do some nice girly stuff with your hair.
You don't need to heal the scar anymore, but you still can change its appearance.  The top of the skin is renewing itself constantly, and that is what most of the listed treatments are trying to do to make the scar less visible.  You may also want to try to train your facial muscles a little to make your smile more evenly (all a matter of willpower, muscles can be retrained). 
You are still very young and estrogen will have a more dramatic affect on your feminizing than with me old hag!
It may distribute more fat to your cheeks and fill out the depression of the scar very well!

And a gain, this positive thinking gives you a more friendly face and radiates out!  I really think that you cold be a real hot looking chick, if you wanted to be one!
Go for it little sister, show it to them!
Hugs
Linde

[DawnOday]

I have an 18 inch scar on my calf from 1993 heart surgery. They used a vein in my leg to replace veins in my heart. That scar is now barely visible. Vitamin E is what I used.  I gave quite a few acne scars on my face and I am going to get a face peel or dermabrasion depending what Nanci my esthetician recommends.  If that does not help than Dermacol foundation will. Dermacol is a full cover makeup used for covering scars and male stubble. The only problem is that you may have to get several different colors to blend together to match your skin color. I'll send you a picture to show you my  hand which is discolored due to scarring from my dog ripping my hand to shreds and how dermacol covers it up. It will take me a while to find that laptop the picture resides on.

[IzzyM]

I think you have a really cute smile, you said you have friends that you think would be supportive, try opening up to them, their support will give you more confidence, to be yourself.

Hugs,

Izzy

[930310]

Friends? I don't have any friends. The people that I've talked to are just acquaintances and nothing more. I talk to them at most once a month in passing.

[Linde]

Friends? I don't have any friends. The people that I've talked to are just acquaintances and nothing more. I talk to them at most once a month in passing.

Have you ever sat back and think about it, why you do not have any friends?  Friendship is a two way route, it is a give and take, like any close interpersonal relations.
Are you just sitting inside  your  walls and hope potential friends would come and find you?
Do you have any hobbies that you could share with other persons and become a friend with them?
I moved last year several thousand kilometers away from Wisconsin to my new place in Florida.  I did not know anybody at all.  That is a pretty lonesome life, sitting there all alone.  I joined a local socio-political discussion group, and found all my friends there.  These friends had other friends, and I have now about 5 relative close friends, and about 20 very good acquaintances who I see at least once a week.
The 5 close friends are all women, and they are my coaches for becoming one of them.  They help me with makeup, shopping and a lot o things that I never knew about, because it is female stuff.

Can you do something similar?  You are young and flexible, while I am old and don't bend that much anymore.  But i could do it, I bet you can do it, too!

Just go out and do it, and have some fun, and the smile will come to your face automatically!

[930310]

I'm not even going to read that since you do not know me or about my situation.

[Linde]

I'm not even going to read that since you do not know me or about my situation.

You are asking for help here, you complain that you have no friends, but as soon as anybody writes something which does not fit into the scheme you set for your self, you get pretty un polite with your responses.
Do you really feel that makes me to want to answer other questions you have?
Maybe reactions like this are one of the reasons that you have no friends!

[930310]

So I tried smiling for a picture.


I'm posting a video a day over on Youtube, where I talk about whatever comes to mind while applying make up or training my voice.
https://www.youtube.com/user/930310/videos

[930310]

Dietlind, all you are doing is being rude and inconsiderate in the way that you are putting things forward. You make things just seem sooo easy. For some they might be but for others they are not. You do not appear to understand what depression is or how people who are depressed act. I am getting discouraged from you writing here like that.

Of course I want friends but I want friends who can take the good with the bad. I get very short when I am depressed and people who can't handle that aren't really friends now, are they? Suggesting to someone that them being very depressed being the reason they don't have any friends hardly helps. That's how I interpret what you are writing.

[NatalieRene]

You look very nice in that picture. I have noticed you using words like ugly to describe yourself but when I first saw your photo I thought young woman. I'm not blowing smoke. Your voice isn't too low in pitch either. If you keep up with your training I think you will do well. Also that falsetto that you used for a moment was actually not as bad as you think. In fact if you practice your resonance and inflection with it I think you will be doing very well.

I'm not sure what the story is behind the scar on your face is but whatever it is I am sorry that you have had to endure it. Hopefully it will fade more in time but your make up you applied made a difference. Besides the body is just the vessel, let your light shine and the scar will not matter in the grand scheme of things.

I know you had a difficult time in school. I think that is probably a common thing for us. I was tormented from 1st through 9th grade. When I joined NJROTC I found liberation from the bullying but couldn't be myself utterly at all.

When we moved to Georgia in 1997 and I started 10th grade I kept to my self and shielded off all emotion and allowed no one to get close through 11th grade in order to protect myself. Although looking back there where lots of people that tried very hard to be friends. I didn't have any friends until college and even then it was because they reached out, not because of me. Maybe it was because I saw misfits in them too that I opened up at all.

When you think you're alone you are not. When you think you can't go on go for a run or play with your dog and try to think of things you are thankful for.

[ChrissyRyan]

I like your smile.   

I wish you many happy years ahead.

Hugs,

Chrissy

[GordonG]

I think your smile is wonderful. Keep it up. I've been commented to multiple times in my life that I needed to smile more. And with practice it does get easier.  Keep it up.

[Linde]

So I tried smiling for a picture.


I'm posting a video a day over on Youtube, where I talk about whatever comes to mind while applying make up or training my voice.
https://www.youtube.com/user/930310/videos

You look so much nicer on this photo.  A smile does do wonders and makes you look pretty! I am watching your videos, and like them.