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Started by Jessica, January 06, 2019, 11:57:57 AM

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Anne Blake

Getting back to the topic at hand, notably a west coast road trip with a stop at the Brick for an evening of, "Free beer @ exit 80".

Please count Deb and me in on this. We have been planning a west coast swing, Canada to San Diego, for August and September. Catching Free Beer at that road house is a must!

Tia Anne
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Donica

Quote from: Michelle_P on January 08, 2019, 01:45:29 PM
While the enthusiasm is appreciated, please keep in mind that Steph is out west for surgery. Having done this myself and provided support for several  others, including extended stays at Michelle's Nest, I have a few suggestions.

1.  Allow a few days of quiet time before surgery, to calm and center yourself. This is about the patient, not her posse.

2.  Post op, plan on being around for two weeks; one in hospital and one resting and recovering at the Nest. The patient may have a post op checkup at around 10-14 days after surgery.

Please remember to keep the patient centered. Her needs come first, always.


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Agreed Michelle! Definitely things to consider for this occasion.

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Anne Blake

Has anyone checked with Kendra @Kendra if the band will be playing in late summer?
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ChrissyRyan

What kind of music does this band play?


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Donica

Quote from: Anne Blake on January 08, 2019, 06:29:15 PM
Has anyone checked with Kendra @Kendra if the band will be playing in late summer?
IDK Tia? It's still a long way off yet.

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Donica

Quote from: Anne Blake on January 08, 2019, 04:09:54 PM
Getting back to the topic at hand, notably a west coast road trip with a stop at the Brick for an evening of, "Free beer @ exit 80".

Please count Deb and me in on this. We have been planning a west coast swing, Canada to San Diego, for August and September. Catching Free Beer at that road house is a must!

Tia Anne
I would so love to meet you and Deb. Let's make this happen!

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Anne Blake

Donica,

There are a lot of neat Susan's gals (ok, guys too) on the west coast and we hope to meet many of them on that road trip. Your name has been high on the list...... so yes, let's make this happen.

Tia Anne
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Jessica

I think many of us want to meet each one another!


Quote from: Anne Blake on January 08, 2019, 07:24:23 PM
Donica,

There are a lot of neat Susan's gals (ok, guys too) on the west coast and we hope to meet many of them on that road trip. Your name has been high on the list...... so yes, let's make this happen.

Tia Anne

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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steph2.0

The Trans-Pacific Portable Pulchritudinous Pleiades Party!

Both Cassie and I have personal friends we want to meet up with in Eugene, OR. We never thought we'd have a caravan along, but we can make it happen one way or another.

Stephanie


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Perry

You girls just know how to have fun!

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Donica

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 08, 2019, 08:54:25 PM
The Trans-Pacific Portable Pulchritudinous Pleiades Party!

Both Cassie and I have personal friends we want to meet up with in Eugene, OR. We never thought we'd have a caravan along, but we can make it happen one way or another.

Stephanie

Just let me know girls. Wow! Pulchritudinous! I had to look that one up. Not just for the definition but for proper pronunciation too. I love it! Girls just want to have fun ;D
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Lisa89125

Hmm, Ladies if you happen to come across any Northern Pacific RR stuff please send me some pictures. The NP has been gone for many decades now. if anyone happens on old Milwaukee Road artifacts even better. The Milw has a soft spot in my heart. Especially since they used electric locos on the Rocky Mountain Division and in the Pacific Northwest. Long live the Milwaukee Road!

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Tessa James

Whats this West Coast Roadtrip Thing without a visit to the Pacific Ocean beaches!  I am a mile from the beaches and a quarter mile from Highway 101 in Oregon.   We slept 7 or was it 9? in this 2 bedroom house last June when Jessica's picture of us was snapped at Astoria Pride.  We have over 15 acres of camping space and a mile of trails to wander.... over the river and thru the woods to the Unicorn Forest they go...the whore knows the way to play in the hay and .......

The Pacific Northwest has a growing reputation as being LGBTQ friendly and it is, for the most part, deserved.  Come on out and walk the beaches.  Feel welcome and safe.
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Jessica

@Tessa James

Quote from: Tessa James on January 14, 2019, 05:43:50 PM
Whats this West Coast Roadtrip Thing without a visit to the Pacific Ocean beaches!  I am a mile from the beaches and a quarter mile from Highway 101 in Oregon.   We slept 7 or was it 9? in this 2 bedroom house last June when Jessica's picture of us was snapped at Astoria Pride.  We have over 15 acres of camping space and a mile of trails to wander.... over the river and thru the woods to the Unicorn Forest they go...the whore knows the way to play in the hay and .......

The Pacific Northwest has a growing reputation as being LGBTQ friendly and it is, for the most part, deserved.  Come on out and walk the beaches.  Feel welcome and safe.

I wonder if @Kendra and her merry band of minstrels would want to play there... and play there!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."


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Tessa James

Oh that would so ROCK!  Kendra?   We can facilitate as we have more than a few cool venues to play around here...
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steph2.0

TL;DR:
My extremely tentative schedule for the west coast trip is:
Fly to SF on 9/5
Yosemite 9/8-9
Tour SF 9/11-12
Road Trip 9/13-21
Surgery 9/25
Return home 10/10

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Hello Girls! I was starting to lose track of who and where on this thread, so I reviewed all of the posts, and here's a current summary of the extremely tentative plans.

First and foremost, the initial driver for all of this is the date of my GCS with Dr. Bowers. It's subject to change a few weeks either way, but at this point it's set for September 25th, 2019.

For the road trip, I'll start with the known destinations so far, with approximate travel times (not counting stops):

Walnut Creek, CA
- 8 hours
Eugene, OR
- 2 hours
Portland, OR
- 2 hours
Astoria, OR
- 3.5 hours
Seattle, WA
-1.5 hours
Roslyn, WA

And, either before or after the big Road Trip, Yosemite National Park, 3 hours from Walnut Creek.

Based on travel times, and taking into account that both Cassie and I have friends to visit in Eugene, one possible itinerary could be:

Outbound: Walnut Creek -> Eugene -> Portland* -> Seattle -> Roslyn.
Return: Roslyn -> Seattle -> Astoria -> Portland* -> Eugene -> Walnut Creek.

Notes:
- I'm assuming that Kendra's offer for friends to crash at her Seattle condo still stands.
- Portland could be omitted if @Laurie is traveling the entire route with us.
- It may be possible to go to Roslyn to dance, then return to Seattle for the night.
- We could visit my friend in Eugene on the outbound leg and Cassie's friend on the way back.
- I haven't talked to my friend in Eugene, but she's the type who could very well offer us a place to crash for a night or two.
- Eugene makes a decent stopping place so we don't have to do the entire leg from/to Walnut Creek in one day. I don't know about you girls, but I'm getting a little old to sit in a car or a bus for 12 hours.
- We should add in a few days so we can see the sights. I'd suggest 1/2 day on each leg to see Eugene, maybe a day at Portland, definitely a day or two in Seattle, and at least a full day for the paradise that @Tessa James talks about.

That makes the trip about a week long.

Now for the interesting part. At this point I have sixteen sisters who have expressed interest in either having us visit or actually going on the trip:

@Steph2.0
@SassyCassie
@Kendra
@Michelle_P
@Laurie
@Jessica
@Donica
@islandgirl
@Jessica_Rose
@Susan_Rose
@Anne Blake and Deb
@GordonG
@sarah1972
@Alaskan Danielle
@Tessa James

On Michelle's advice, I'm giving myself, let's say, three days before surgery to relax and get balanced (considering I'm usually off-kilter). That means I need to be back in Walnut Creek on the 22nd. I'd like two full days in Yosemite, and probably two days in San Francisco.

So... working backwards, here is a possible plan, set in Jello.

9/5: Cassie and I fly in to SF.
9/6: Settle in.
9/7: Travel to Yosemite.
9/8-9: Yosemite.
9/10: Travel back to Walnut Creek.
9/11-12: San Francisco
9/13: TP5* begins, night in Eugene.
9/14: Morning in Eugene, travel to Portland and on to Seattle.
9/15: Day in Seattle, travel to Roslyn. (Stay in Roslyn or return to Seattle?)
9/16: Day in Seattle
9/17: Travel to Astoria
9/18: Day in Astoria
9/19: Travel to Portland, day in Portland.
9/20: Travel to Eugene
9/21: Morning in Eugene, return to Walnut Creek.
9/22-24: Get centered.
9/25: The Big Day.
10/10 or so: Return home.

*Trans-Pacific Portable Pulchritudinous Pleiades Party.

I'm absolutely sure this is all subject to change. Discussion and modifications are welcome. It's nothing more than a starting point. It's fun to think about, if nothing else.

Stephanie


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Jessica

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 15, 2019, 09:49:49 AM
TL;DR:
My extremely tentative schedule for the west coast trip is:
Fly to SF on 9/5
Yosemite 9/8-9
Tour SF 9/11-12
Road Trip 9/13-21
Surgery 9/25
Return home 10/10

———————————-

Hello Girls! I was starting to lose track of who and where on this thread, so I reviewed all of the posts, and here's a current summary of the extremely tentative plans.

First and foremost, the initial driver for all of this is the date of my GCS with Dr. Bowers. It's subject to change a few weeks either way, but at this point it's set for September 25th, 2019.

For the road trip, I'll start with the known destinations so far, with approximate travel times (not counting stops):

Walnut Creek, CA
- 8 hours
Eugene, OR
- 2 hours
Portland, OR
- 2 hours
Astoria, OR
- 3.5 hours
Seattle, WA
-1.5 hours
Roslyn, WA

And, either before or after the big Road Trip, Yosemite National Park, 3 hours from Walnut Creek.

Based on travel times, and taking into account that both Cassie and I have friends to visit in Eugene, one possible itinerary could be:

Outbound: Walnut Creek -> Eugene -> Portland* -> Seattle -> Roslyn.
Return: Roslyn -> Seattle -> Astoria -> Portland* -> Eugene -> Walnut Creek.

Notes:
- I'm assuming that Kendra's offer for friends to crash at her Seattle condo still stands.
- Portland could be omitted if @Laurie is traveling the entire route with us.
- It may be possible to go to Roslyn to dance, then return to Seattle for the night.
- We could visit my friend in Eugene on the outbound leg and Cassie's friend on the way back.
- I haven't talked to my friend in Eugene, but she's the type who could very well offer us a place to crash for a night or two.
- Eugene makes a decent stopping place so we don't have to do the entire leg from/to Walnut Creek in one day. I don't know about you girls, but I'm getting a little old to sit in a car or a bus for 12 hours.
- We should add in a few days so we can see the sights. I'd suggest 1/2 day on each leg to see Eugene, maybe a day at Portland, definitely a day or two in Seattle, and at least a full day for the paradise that @Tessa James talks about.

That makes the trip about a week long.

Now for the interesting part. At this point I have sixteen sisters who have expressed interest in either having us visit or actually going on the trip:

@Steph2.0
@SassyCassie
@Kendra
@Michelle_P
@Laurie
@Jessica
@Donica
@islandgirl
@Jessica_Rose
@Susan_Rose
@Anne Blake and Deb
@GordonG
@sarah1972
@Alaskan Danielle
@Tessa James

On Michelle's advice, I'm giving myself, let's say, three days before surgery to relax and get balanced (considering I'm usually off-kilter). That means I need to be back in Walnut Creek on the 22nd. I'd like two full days in Yosemite, and probably two days in San Francisco.

So... working backwards, here is a possible plan, set in Jello.

9/5: Cassie and I fly in to SF.
9/6: Settle in.
9/7: Travel to Yosemite.
9/8-9: Yosemite.
9/10: Travel back to Walnut Creek.
9/11-12: San Francisco
9/13: TP5* begins, night in Eugene.
9/14: Morning in Eugene, travel to Portland and on to Seattle.
9/15: Day in Seattle, travel to Roslyn. (Stay in Roslyn or return to Seattle?)
9/16: Day in Seattle
9/17: Travel to Astoria
9/18: Day in Astoria
9/19: Travel to Portland, day in Portland.
9/20: Travel to Eugene
9/21: Morning in Eugene, return to Walnut Creek.
9/22-24: Get centered.
9/25: The Big Day.
10/10 or so: Return home.

*Trans-Pacific Portable Pulchritudinous Pleiades Party.

I'm absolutely sure this is all subject to change. Discussion and modifications are welcome. It's nothing more than a starting point. It's fun to think about, if nothing else.

Stephanie

The dates you have for Yosemite are all booked in the campgrounds, but might I suggest the Yosemite Lodge or for a tent cabin try Half Dome Village (Camp Curry).  Do this as soon as you can, as they will book up.

All the dates work for me.

SQUEEEEEEEEEEE


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steph2.0

Quote from: Jessica on January 15, 2019, 11:11:47 AM
The dates you have for Yosemite are all booked in the campgrounds, but might I suggest the Yosemite Lodge or for a tent cabin try Half Dome Village (Camp Curry).  Do this as soon as you can, as they will book up.

All the dates work for me.

SQUEEEEEEEEEEE

I would love to book now, but I won't know a definite surgery date until approximately June. I'll check to see if the reservations are cancellable. If I can't figure out something for the valley I may have to get a hotel in Mariposa or somewhere else outside and drive in for the day.


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Michelle_P

@Steph2.0

QuoteOn Michelle's advice, I'm giving myself, let's say, three days before surgery to relax and get balanced (considering I'm usually off-kilter). That means I need to be back in Walnut Creek on the 22nd. I'd like two full days in Yosemite, and probably two days in San Francisco.

I was being slightly euphemistic, but you'll want to be in a restful and safe environment a few days before surgery.  There is almost certainly a pre-op regimen to follow. 

You may have a pre-op appointment at which some lab work is done, and a pre-op care regimen and prescriptions are issued.  There is generally some bowel prep, done to minimize risks in surgery.  You may be put on a low-residue diet a few days before surgery.  1-2 days prior to surgery you may be on a liquid diet and be given a 'clean-out' treatment, such as a jug of Colace.  You really don't want to be on a road trip for this!

Being in a calm and relaxed state before going in for surgery will also help you feel better in those last few hours before surgery, less rushed and more certain of what you are about to do.

By the way, my colon was nicked in my surgery while opening the vaginal vault, and the prep saved me considerable complications.  The only impact on me was a couple more days on a restricted diet post-surgery while in the hospital.

San Francisco from my place is trivial.  I generally go over there as a day trip, wander around on foot (it is VERY walkable) dine and shopn there.  I often lead a half-day hike that hits lower Market St, the Ferry Building, Embarcadero, Fisherman's Wharf, North Beach (Little Italy), the real and tourist Chinatown, and the great shopping district around Union Square.

Golden Gate Park, the Haight-Ashbury neighborhood, and even Ocean Beach are a short light rail or bus ride away.  Driving is NOT recommended.  SF is way too much like Manhattan, but with less skilled drivers!
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Donica

Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 15, 2019, 11:23:29 AM
I would love to book now, but I won't know a definite surgery date until approximately June. I'll check to see if the reservations are cancellable. If I can't figure out something for the valley I may have to get a hotel in Mariposa or somewhere else outside and drive in for the day.
I'm glad to see we're back up and running. I have some catching up to do.

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