Yo. Im a bi trans guy and know that I love dudes a lot but never really concerned myself with getting romantically involved with a guy until abt a year ago. And I kinda realized I dont really know like...how gay men express love for each other. i think it has something to do with the fact that i grew up thinking i was just a lesbian and only concerned myself with girls for such a long time.
when i rly love someone, i like to be really vocal, cuddly, flirty and all around fun. but for some reason ive convinced myself that this is a "feminine" way to express love or that this is how "girls" love eachother. im worried it will just make me stand out in a rly negative way
I know the answer is "theres no wrong way to love" but this gives me a lot of dysphoria because i feel like although i AM a man that loves men, i dont understand it. Ive never spent a lot of time in communities of gay men online or off. I just want to be part of it like any other guy. Hope that makes sense
