Quote from: Maid Marion on January 31, 2019, 06:47:52 AM
I don't know whether it is the result of being a minority where I live or being short,
This could be a reason, because Asian people seem to be generally shorter than Caucasian ones. I remember my times in Japan, where I felt like a towering giant (6') standing out in any crowd!
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Someone who is intersex should be able to easily "fly under the radar." It is something that the medical community doesn't really acknowledge. Nor does society. So there is an inherent denial factor.
Good luck!
Don't forget that most physicians have no clue what to look for when they see intersex people. It became really "mainstream " in the late 90's, well after most docs had finished med school!
i am one of those medical persons, who did not even realize that i was intersex, because I did not know anything about it. The only thing I knew was that I was different, but had not much of an explanation or it!
I don't think it is a denial factor, but rather an education factor. The majority of society has never heard about something like intersex, and can't even imagine to have a multiple number of sexes being housed in one singel human body (it is actually even hard for us intersex people to get our arms around this). I think that is one of the reasons why I never developed any real gender identity. What gender are you, being raised as a male while mostly having a female body? How on earth can a young person develop any identity of what they are, if they try to be a male, but never can keep up with their male peers, and feel way more comfortable with females, who, however, reject them because they are supposed to be male!
I lived in a constant emotional mess, because I did not know who I was! At that time, nobody else knew that either!
And under the radar I was, trying to live as a man, until that exercise failed badly!
Now I try to live as a woman, and hope I can succeed with this gender! But I still don't have a real gender identity, which allows me to present as male as easy, as it is to present as female. I like the female roll better, and have this as my default gender roll.