Despite my smiles, this is definitely not a walk in the park. Keeping a sense of humor really helps, but ... ouch. My current discomfort is temporary, the joy I will feel coming out the other side will last a lifetime. Concentrating on that outcome helps keep things in perspective.
Important lesson -- make sure you know if your pain meds will be administered on a regular schedule or on an 'as needed' basis!!!
I assumed my pain meds were on a regular schedule, and I was painfully wrong. For about 30 minutes this evening I experienced the most excruciating pain in my life. I have no scale of reference to describe it. My whole body was shaking, I felt cold, tears flowed freely, I was grimacing in pain, and I was on the verge of screaming out. At that point the nurse came in and asked if I needed pain meds, of course I said 'yes, please'. It took about 15 minutes for them to kick in, and I am OK now. My pain meds will now be brought every four hours.