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Started by KathyLauren, February 15, 2019, 10:07:12 AM

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steph2.0

Quote from: KathyLauren on February 17, 2019, 02:07:28 PM
Thanks, everyone! :)

Tia @Anne Blake, I will definitely update this thread when I have something to update it with.  I expect to do a whole bunch of waiting between updates. 

The next thing will probably be a consultation with my doctor prior to submitting my application to Dr. Brassard's clinic.  Then, several months' wait until they respond.  Then waiting for a date, then waiting for the date to arrive.

So, I don't recommend holding your breath waiting for updates!  But I promise to update it whenever something happens!

I'm watching and cheering for you from the Peanut Gal-ery!


Stephanie


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Denise

Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 21, 2019, 09:36:13 AM
I'm watching and cheering for you from the Peanut Gal-ery!


Stephanie
And the pea-no-nut gal-ery too.  I'm excited for you. The time will fly by when you look back.  <<<Hugs>>>

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KathyLauren

Today is the day I was supposed to see my doctor to go over my application to the GRS Montreal clinic.  We had a major snowstorm yesterday, and the roads were in no condition for long distance travelling, so I didn't go.  She doesn't actually need my presence to write whatever letter she needs to write, it was just an optional appointment anyway.  So I told her to go ahead and send the letter and call me if she needed any information from me.

She is pretty efficient, so I will assume that the letter will go to Montreal some time this week.
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Anne Blake

Kathy, good choice to avoid the icy and snowy road drive. Congratulations on taking the next step, how long until you expect to hear back from the Montreal clinic?

Tia Anne
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KathyLauren

Quote from: Anne Blake on March 05, 2019, 11:09:16 AMhow long until you expect to hear back from the Montreal clinic?
Thanks, Tia.  I am told that it takes them about three months to respond.  After that, I will get a date that will be at least six months in the future.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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steph2.0

Quote from: KathyLauren on March 05, 2019, 10:21:45 AM
Today is the day I was supposed to see my doctor to go over my application to the GRS Montreal clinic.  We had a major snowstorm yesterday, and the roads were in no condition for long distance travelling, so I didn't go.  She doesn't actually need my presence to write whatever letter she needs to write, it was just an optional appointment anyway.  So I told her to go ahead and send the letter and call me if she needed any information from me.

She is pretty efficient, so I will assume that the letter will go to Montreal some time this week.

I understand wanting to be there in person, but you did the smart thing. Another step forward, regardless. Awesome!!

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Donica

Yes I have to agree Kathy. I'm glad you didn't venture out on to those icy snow packed roads. I hope things go ok with your letter.

Hugs.
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Rayna

Just getting caught up. Congratulations on getting into the process, Kathy! It will be exciting for all of us to follow and support your progress.
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Rachel

Congratulations. Six months will be in the fall, a nice time to have the procedure. Time will fly and before you know it, the day will be here.
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KathyLauren

So, I get back from the mailbox, and I am checking through a stack of mail.  Hmm, bills, more bills.  Oh!  Who do I know in Montreal?  ???

I got my information package from Dr. Brassard's clinic in the mail!!  ;D  Some preliminary info and some forms to be filled out by me and my doctor. 

SQUEEEEE!!!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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steph2.0

Quote from: KathyLauren on March 26, 2019, 01:09:19 PM
So, I get back from the mailbox, and I am checking through a stack of mail.  Hmm, bills, more bills.  Oh!  Who do I know in Montreal?  ???

I got my information package from Dr. Brassard's clinic in the mail!!  ;D  Some preliminary info and some forms to be filled out by me and my doctor. 

SQUEEEEE!!!

Squeeeee indeed!! Congratulations on another step forward!


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Dear Kathy:
Wonderful news for sure!!
Yes indeed.... SQUEEEEE!!!  ....
and I will add my  Wow-Whee  to that!!!

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Donica

Quote from: KathyLauren on March 26, 2019, 01:09:19 PM
So, I get back from the mailbox, and I am checking through a stack of mail.  Hmm, bills, more bills.  Oh!  Who do I know in Montreal?  ???

I got my information package from Dr. Brassard's clinic in the mail!!  ;D  Some preliminary info and some forms to be filled out by me and my doctor. 

SQUEEEEE!!!

Yay!!! It's happening girl. That deserves a SQUEEEE for sure.
Rebirth 06/09/2017. HRT 08/22/2017. RLE 07/14/2018. Name and Gender change 10/19/2018. FFS 09/06/2019. GCS 05/26/2021.
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Anne Blake

Congratulations girl! It is indeed moving along. SQUEEEEEE
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KathyLauren

It's been a couple of months.  In that time, I got all the requisite forms filled in and sent off.  The basic paperwork is done and I have confirmation that I am in the queue.  The next step will hopefully be to receive a tentative surgery date.  That might take a couple of months, and then the actual date may end up being a year later.  But I'm in the queue. :icon_nervious:
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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CynthiaAnn

Quote from: KathyLauren on May 31, 2019, 05:16:56 PM
But I'm in the queue. :icon_nervious:

I just spotted your topic Kathy, and very happy for you.

The wait, it's an event in it's self, may the planets align, when it's your time, and I have no doubt, you will do fine

Hugs

Cynthia -
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KathyLauren

Well the site crash terminated this thread at an unfortunate place in the narrative.  All the good stuff is gone.   :(

Long story short:  I had my GRS in March 2020 with Dr. Brassard.  The surgery went well.  I flew home a week later by myself.  The incisions and sutures all healed up quickly and with no problems.  Unfortunately, I was left with ongoing pain that didn't go away.  I went back to Dr. Brassard a year later, but he couldn't see anything wrong, so there was nothing for him to fix.  (That unproductive visit cost me about $100 per minute!) 

I am now, 4 years later, gradually weaning myself off anti-inflammatory meds.  The pain is no longer continuous.  Interestingly, it seems to come and go on a 26-day cycle!!  :o

Was it worth it?  Yes, I think so.  If I had to do it all over again, knowing how it would turn out, I might opt for something less invasive, like maybe an orchiectomy.  But, even with the pain, I like my new configuration.  I think I really did need it.  So maybe I'd do it the same all over again.
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davina61

Good to see you are okay, I had (have) a uncomfortable spot on the right side from an infection that is still painful dilating so I have stopped. Not that it makes any difference these days.
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Gwendoline

Congratulations, and I hope waiting list and que will be short for you!
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