Quote from: Lisa_K on February 16, 2019, 05:29:46 AM
I think I just need to go on hiatus and keep quiet from now on and take up a new hobby or something? I have enough issues without trans drama being one of them so go I back into the privileged woodwork in 3-2-1 poof! My best to everyone with everything.
I would not like this very much Lisa, because when I read your contributions an reports, it always let's me know how my life could have been, if I would have been born 5 or 20 years later.
I know that I was medically altered as a baby, I don't know why, I just can guess. I know that my parents did not emphasize any gender roll with me, but that changed when I entered society through school. I had to be a guy, and alter a man. I tried very hard to fit that roll and eventually failed to do so. Now, because society allows it for me, I am in full steam to be a woman!
I don't really know if I qualify as being transgender enough, or the right version and color of transgender, because in my mind I am just reclaiming the gender and body that was stolen from me a long time ago.
I am not able to give a lot of advise for a lot of people here, because I never had real dysphoria (and still don't have any), I have a deep rooted dislike for the bodily features that were forced onto me, but similar surgical procedures can correct that, as it could give me them when I was a baby.
However, I still feel that I belong to this transgender family, because many aspects of my life are the same as they are for other transgender women. It might not be identical in all aspects, but very often it is close enough to help me to understand what is going on with me. I am as confused about what is going on with me, as it is for any transgender person here, because I was also forced to live with the wrong gender identity!
Again Lisa, I hope you stay involved here, because I, too, (even as old as I am) like to dream once in a while how my life could have been, nd for this dreaming I use your life and our empathy as an example!
Lots of hugs
Linde