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Turning my partner in transsexual.

Started by The thing, January 16, 2017, 12:19:42 PM

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Should I stop the feminization partner?

Yes. I got him into this process, and therefore I have to stop him.
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We must go with the flow.
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No. On the whole, he was pleased.
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I just need to leave a partner, allowing it to completely solve their own destiny.
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Your version (please specify).
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JulieOnHerWay

Some how you need to get your partner to seek help.
Now.
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JoanneB

After haveing been to both a generalist and a for real gender therapist, I have to say there is a world of difference between the two. Without a broad knowledge bases and experience with the totally broad spectrum of clients with GD and the means they worked out to manage it, it is hard for a therapist to grasp what a client may be going through
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The thing

Unfortunately my partner does not trust specialists in this matter. Since this person believes that he knows himself much better.


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The thing

For a long time I did not make updates. But I think that it is necessary to share the attendant.

My partner seems to have finally decided on his future. He considers himself as a man. However, this is not a full way back.

Said several times over the past year tried to stop taking female hormones. But he returned to the use of estrogen every time. First, his body got used to such a chemical position. Secondly, it was not so important for him to look brutal. So that he decided to continue hormone therapy.

He also did not completely abandon the wearing of women's clothing. Said wearing a bra on a regular basis, also prefers women's trousers, in general, in everyday life prefers a unisex style.

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Dena

Thank you for the update. It sounds like your partner may be part of the non binary where there isn't a clear male/female identity. Unfortunately I don't have a really good link to give you but starting here and the following two entries may proved some useful information about this.
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The thing

Quote from: Dena on January 25, 2019, 07:33:32 PM
It sounds like your partner may be part of the non binary where there isn't a clear male/female identity.

Yes, my partner has an unusual situation. As I understand it, he perceives himself as a man cross-dresser. Such as for my partner, women's clothing has become less fascinating, but is still used.  Most of all, he wears unisex clothing and men's clothing, but the dresses did not disappear completely from his wardrobe.

Said feels OK to have a female breast, and the fact that the changes in his figure are still slowly going to the female side. But, as he told me, if he had a time machine, he would not take estrogen.

Sometimes he behaves like a woman, but I don't know whether this is part of the image or is it a property of his mind, or is it due to 3 years of HRT.



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Allison S



Quote from: The thing on January 25, 2019, 11:33:47 PM



What does he regret about being on hrt? If he stops now, he may be able to reverse most of the changes. Also, he can get the nipples changed back. But if you both agreed in your relationship that he should be on hrt and he wants it for you, then I personally can't comment on that... As long as he's not distressed, and you understand that this could possibly risk the mental health of your boyfriend.

I'm curious what you both look like.. Can you post a photo or send one to me in private? Yeah, I really wanna know lol

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GingerVicki

This had been one of the most interesting threads that I've ever read in my life. I am glad that things are working out. I must say that there is zero chance in my opinion that someone would start HRT without being transgender. It could happen, but I seriously doubt.
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christinej78

@Allison S
Quote from: Allison S on January 26, 2019, 03:54:10 AM

What does he regret about being on hrt? If he stops now, he may be able to reverse most of the changes. Also, he can get the nipples changed back. But if you both agreed in your relationship that he should be on hrt and he wants it for you, then I personally can't comment on that... As long as he's not distressed, and you understand that this could possibly risk the mental health of your boyfriend.

I'm curious what you both look like.. Can you post a photo or send one to me in private? Yeah, I really wanna know lol

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Hi Allison,                           21 February 2019

"I'm curious what you both look like.. Can you post a photo or send one to me in private? Yeah, I really wanna know lol"

How about you going first since you brought it up.

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Allison S

Quote from: christinej78 on February 21, 2019, 02:18:01 PM
@Allison S
Hi Allison,                           21 February 2019

"I'm curious what you both look like.. Can you post a photo or send one to me in private? Yeah, I really wanna know lol"

How about you going first since you brought it up.

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Christine
Was this directed at you? Lol I'm not sure it was.. And I've posted many pics of me a while back. My question was mostly tongue in cheek anyway...

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christinej78

Quote from: Allison S on February 21, 2019, 04:42:19 PM
Was this directed at you? Lol I'm not sure it was.. And I've posted many pics of me a while back. My question was mostly tongue in cheek anyway...

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Hi Allison,                        21 February 2019

"My question was mostly tongue in cheek anyway..."

So was my post. Which part of yours wasn't?

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Chris
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Allison S

Quote from: christinej78 on February 22, 2019, 12:23:20 AM
Hi Allison,                        21 February 2019

"My question was mostly tongue in cheek anyway..."

So was my post. Which part of yours wasn't?

Best Always, Love
Chris
Lol you made me chuckle this morning- I needed it [emoji28]
I still wanna see what this couple looks like!! A guy feminizing his bf is too interesting 
(I know they won't send a pic for privacy reasons anyway...)

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GingerVicki

If I read dirty stories elaborating on this one could be very interesting. If done right could make 50 shades blush. I am all in for a movie, book, or a story about this dom and sub relationship. Sounds spicy!
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