I am glad I came out 10 years ago, have a much better life now. I was struggling big time with my life going down hill. Thought I was unhappy as male or a crossdresser, this wasn't the case for me. I knew I had desires to dress as female although I am happy as male. Finally did see a therapist whom diagnosed me with being bigender. Finally I had answers and the next step was coming out. I knew my mom is a lesbian and I asked her for advice how she came out. Told me that just be myself and knew she was correct on it. Two days later, I came out to her partner at the time and now wife Laura and mom as bigender. Both knew to accept it and I was struggling. Now know I am happy as Taylor fulltime. It did cost me a relationship, my 1st wife thought I was confused and ended up in Divorce. Good news is my 2nd wife Nikki is supportive, loves me for who I am. I was dressing on and off as Taylor at first. Went fulltime 5 years ago. This also brought my mom, her wife Laura and I together knowing we are in the GLBT community together.
