How do you put on your bra?

[jkredman]

I hand wash and hang to dry.

No underwires so they get washed with the rest of my undies....


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[Kirsteneklund7]

OK I didn't mean to hijack the post. 

After 5 months of HRT I'm a 42c.  (Don't get jealous.  I developed gynecomastia.  I was roughly a 42b.  I took this as my body telling me, in addition to  dealing with my dysphoria, that I had to transition.)

I'm not full time yet.   (Descussed in other posts).   When I want to present as Kate, a little padding creates the bust that pushes me far enough to enjoy 'male fail.'

When I have to present as my dead name, Keith, a sports bra that compresses is what I wear.

I do have a couple of padded sports bras which seem to leave people wondering.

I love it.

FYI the absolute best 'male fail' happened a couple of weeks ago.  My wife and I were going to a show and she asked me:  "What are we GIRLS going to wear?"  I froze.   I didn't know how to respond to being referred to as a girl by the person who holds the most important relationship in my life.  I stammered something.   We had a wonderful time that night.  But most importantly, there is toleration and some acceptance!

Couldn't be happier.

Kate


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Ok Kate now I am jealous male fail AND wife on board! Oh ...and well developed breasts. The trifecta !

Kind envious regards, Kirsten.

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[pamelatransuk]

Now padded vs. unpadded would be, I think, an interesting topic.

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Padded for me both for enhancement/appearance and for protection.

Hugs

Pamela

[pamelatransuk]

When I want to present as Kate, a little padding creates the bust that pushes me far enough to enjoy 'male fail.'

When I have to present as my dead name, Keith, a sports bra that compresses is what I wear.

I do have a couple of padded sports bras which seem to leave people wondering.

I love it.

FYI the absolute best 'male fail' happened a couple of weeks ago.  My wife and I were going to a show and she asked me:  "What are we GIRLS going to wear?"  I froze.   I didn't know how to respond to being referred to as a girl by the person who holds the most important relationship in my life.  I stammered something.   We had a wonderful time that night.  But most importantly, there is toleration and some acceptance!

Couldn't be happier.

Kate

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Hello again Kate

I am truly happy for you. Not only for the mail fail resulting from the padded bras (and other aspects of transition) but most importantly that your wife is showing understanding and acceptance.

You must be so elated at this major step.

Hugs to you and enjoy your weekend.

Pamela  xx