So, I'm getting close to (finally) having my orchidectomy, but I'm starting to get cold feet. The obvious things go through my head, like the fact that it is permanent, and pretty much locked me into HRT for the rest of my life. But another thing that is somewhat new is the idea of how a cismale might respond to it. While my balls are the most masculine part of my body, the penis is staying (not getting a full op yet), and part of me is imagining guys feeling/seeing that penis without testicles and getting spooked...
Does anyone here have a story about having sex with a man after having orchidectomy?
Edit: to clarify, at this point, even the gay guy I was dating before I started my transition (we broke up) knows I am trans. I am not passible at this point, and may never be. This is not about springing things on guys, it is about whether the realization that a castration has been done on a body they are touching bothers them.