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The Story of Lori

Started by Lori Dee, February 23, 2024, 09:53:26 AM

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Dances With Trees

Bon voyage, Lori! Happy Trails and safe travels.

Jessica_Rose

Good luck, Lori! I hope your move goes smoothly. Hopefully, I'll be able to meet up with you on my next visit to Colorado in mid August.

Love always -- Jessica Rose
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
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"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot

Lori Dee

Quote from: Jessica_Rose on June 30, 2025, 12:20:43 PMGood luck, Lori! I hope your move goes smoothly. Hopefully, I'll be able to meet up with you on my next visit to Colorado in mid August.

Love always -- Jessica Rose

Looking forward to it!
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Lori Dee

The best laid plans of mice and men...

I have had the Uhaul truck and tow dolly reserved for over a week and received an email confirmation.

Just now, I got a call from Uhaul that they don't have a tow dolly available. (Now you tell me?)
Oh and the 15-ft truck you reserved is not at the location where you want to pick it up. It's at a different location that does not open until 10 am.

He managed to locate an auto transport trailer (flatbed) and will rent it for the same price as the tow dolly... but it is not in Rapid City. It is in Spearfish at the north end of the Black Hills.

So I pick up the truck Monday at 10:00 and leave my Jeep there. Then drive up to Spearfish and pick up the trailer. Drive back down to Rapid City, load the Jeep onto the trailer and then I can go home and start loading the truck around noon or later.

He apologized for the inconvenience and gave me an extra day rental on the truck and trailer at no charge.

This just might work out. Now to inform my helpers that we won't start loading until Monday afternoon.
< sigh >

It's all good. 😁
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2017 - GD Diagnosis / 2019- 2nd Diagnosis / 2020 - HRT / 2022 - FFS & Legal Name Change
/ 2024 - Voice Training / 2025 - Passport & IDs complete

Jessica_Rose

Quote from: Lori Dee on July 04, 2025, 05:20:12 PMThe best laid plans of mice and men...

Well, you're neither of those Lori. Unless you're actually a pan-dimensional being, so it's possible your true shape is mouse-like. Sometimes life throws curve balls, we just need to have enough experience to know whether to swing or check. I know you'll make it work. Good luck!

Love always -- Jessica Rose
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
23Mar2017 - HRT / 16Feb2018 - Full Time! / 21Feb2019 - GCS / 26July2019 - GCS II / 13Oct2020 - FFS II
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot

ChrissyRyan

Lori,


Well may your move be smooth, after it gets going.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Pema

I'm sorry for the extra hassles, Lori. I hope it all glides as (re)planned now.
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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davina61

Now there will be a very good reason for the change of plan, that is the way the universe works.
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Gina P

Sometimes change of plans is only a way to keep us safe. Good luck with the move.
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ChrissyRyan

It will all work out Lori.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Things did work out as all of you have said. My friends helped me get the truck loaded, I got the Jeep loaded, and after getting some sleep, I left at 5:00 am.

At 1:00 pm I crossed the state line into the Promised Land. 😁



Four hours later, I arrived at my new home and it was 98 degrees. Colorado is under a "heat dome" like New England was a short time ago. Forecast for today is 102 and tomorrow is 101.

I better get the truck unloaded before my rocks melt. 🤪

My Life is Based on a True Story
Veteran U.S. Army - SSG (Staff Sergeant) - M60A3 Tank Master Gunner
2017 - GD Diagnosis / 2019- 2nd Diagnosis / 2020 - HRT / 2022 - FFS & Legal Name Change
/ 2024 - Voice Training / 2025 - Passport & IDs complete

Pema

Congratulations, Lori. I've been waiting to hear how it went.

I hope the unloading goes smoothly and that your life in your new home is everything you hoped it could be.
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Jessica_Rose

The folks who designed the 'Colorful Colorado' signs have a sense of irony. Although the state is colorful, the signs definitely are not.

It can get hot in Colorado, but the low humidity really helps. Stock up on moisturizer.

Love always -- Jessica Rose
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
23Mar2017 - HRT / 16Feb2018 - Full Time! / 21Feb2019 - GCS / 26July2019 - GCS II / 13Oct2020 - FFS II
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot

Dances With Trees

Awesome news, Lori! Glad you're home.
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ChrissyRyan

Yes, that is very hot.  Go up high in the mountains or turn up the A/C to cool down.

Glad you made it. 


Chrissy

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Robbyv213

I'm glad you made it. I hope you're able to settle in and get everything set up with ease.
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Emma1017



So happy for you Lori!!!  I hope the move is everything you hoped for and much, much more.  You deserve it!

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Lori Dee

Thanks, Everyone!

I am officially moved in and a little more than half unpacked. I got my internet connected last night and then... Windoze Updates, so I had to go back and remove all the crap that I told Microsoft not to install.

Today will be more unpacking and organizing. I have a new washer & dryer being delivered and installed this afternoon. That means I get to do laundry. Yay! That also means I got to do laundry. Boo!

I decided to move into the small bedroom for sleeping and use the Master Bedroom as my workspace. It has a lot more storage for my mining gear and plenty of room to set up a work bench or two for rock polishing and jewelry-making this winter.

Within the next week or so, I will be shopping for living room furniture. My back is grateful that I didn't move any big, heavy furniture. I have some ideas about what I want. Now it is just a matter of finding it. Online searches have not been fruitful, so I may have to visit furniture stores and see if they have anything close. That would be better because I can negotiate a better price by offering to pay in cash instead of financing.

I have two VA appointments already set up. I see a new psychologist here at the Pueblo VA Clinic, but my Endocrinology appointment is in Aurora, 111 miles away. Google says it is an hour and 45 minutes drive, but Google doesn't understand things like Denver traffic, road construction, and the plethora of idiots driving on I-25. The VA does reimburse for travel to appointments, but I just hate driving in big city traffic.

I am back online, but it will take me a bit to catch up. I really missed this place and all of you.  :-*
My Life is Based on a True Story
Veteran U.S. Army - SSG (Staff Sergeant) - M60A3 Tank Master Gunner
2017 - GD Diagnosis / 2019- 2nd Diagnosis / 2020 - HRT / 2022 - FFS & Legal Name Change
/ 2024 - Voice Training / 2025 - Passport & IDs complete

ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on Today at 10:59:05 AMThanks, Everyone!

I am officially moved in and a little more than half unpacked. I got my internet connected last night and then... Windoze Updates, so I had to go back and remove all the crap that I told Microsoft not to install.

Today will be more unpacking and organizing. I have a new washer & dryer being delivered and installed this afternoon. That means I get to do laundry. Yay! That also means I got to do laundry. Boo!

I decided to move into the small bedroom for sleeping and use the Master Bedroom as my workspace. It has a lot more storage for my mining gear and plenty of room to set up a work bench or two for rock polishing and jewelry-making this winter.

Within the next week or so, I will be shopping for living room furniture. My back is grateful that I didn't move any big, heavy furniture. I have some ideas about what I want. Now it is just a matter of finding it. Online searches have not been fruitful, so I may have to visit furniture stores and see if they have anything close. That would be better because I can negotiate a better price by offering to pay in cash instead of financing.

I have two VA appointments already set up. I see a new psychologist here at the Pueblo VA Clinic, but my Endocrinology appointment is in Aurora, 111 miles away. Google says it is an hour and 45 minutes drive, but Google doesn't understand things like Denver traffic, road construction, and the plethora of idiots driving on I-25. The VA does reimburse for travel to appointments, but I just hate driving in big city traffic.

I am back online, but it will take me a bit to catch up. I really missed this place and all of you.  :-*

I was surprised that many furniture stores do NOT offer a lower price for cash or check.  It is same prices as when using credit cards.  5% off a $1,000 purchase is $50 and that should be tried for.  Many merchants do NOT want to handle cash or take a personal check. 

I was disappointed that it is the norm in the NYC area for merchants, restaurants, even gas stations to not offer a cash discount but instead charge 3-4% more when using a credit card, even a debit card.

I think that is wrong because I think the full price should be the price shown, and when paying cash, pay less or the same.  Some places are like that, you pay the price posted with a credit card and the merchant can optionally offer a lowered price for cash.

There is a difference, although one can argue there is no effective difference.  Either you get a higher price to pay or you get a price to pay that includes the fees, which could end up being the same price.  Psychologically, it is better I think to get a cash discount rather than paying more to use a credit card. 

Charging for the use of a debit card should be outlawed as nowadays much of those funds are transferred real time out of the customer's account and there is no float for the consumer.  However, the card processor may not release that money to a merchant immediately and charge a processing fee.

Regardless, I hope you get a discount. 

Financing is another matter.  They make money giving you a loan, (or get the sale they otherwise may not have made) usually through a third party, and hope you do not pay it off before the same as cash time period ends.  They may not get all of their money for what they sold up front though as a fee to them.

Any loan that does not allow early payment or early payoffs without penalties should not be taken.

I am amazed that many credit cards can get away charging a few percentage points up front for a cash advance.  That fee is a super high APR equivalent when annualized.

Rip offs for those in need for money now in my option, and also for payday loans.

I am not saying that the credit card fees for a transaction at a store are out of line, but they can be treated as a cost of doing business or passed along to the consumer.  More businesses are starting to pass those fees along to the consumer.  Which is worse nowadays as people do not tend to use cash except for petty purchases and this drives up their prices paid.

I can see the merchant and consumer points of view on these matters.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Gina P

I'm glad the move went well. I hope you get settled in ok. I love Google maps. Higher than usual traffic at this time! Duh, Google. Its there every day at this time! Good luck.
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