On hair removal, the VA does cover it as medically necessary for transgender veterans. When a consult is submitted, it doesn't specify any number of sessions. So ongoing return visits are covered because the hair is still being removed. That is for facial hair.
For genital hair removal, it is covered under the Pre-op necessity. The VA covers everything needed to prepare for surgery: hair removal, mental health evaluation, surgical recommendation letters, EKG and lab tests, etc. They do not cover the surgery itself. But all post-op care is also covered: bandages, catheters, pain medication, etc.
When I got my consult, they sent me to a local dermatology clinic that does laser for facial hair removal. The PA that did the treatment told me that laser would not be effective because most of my facial hair is white or gray. She reported back to my Primary, recommending electrolysis. So the consult was re-worded to specify electrolysis for facial hair removal. The Medical Chief of Staff here approved the request as medically necessary. But there is no one locally who does electrolysis. So I have been fighting to get them to send me someplace that does it.
I was told that there are no VA facilities anywhere in the US that can do electrolysis in-house. Those that offer it, are sending vets to community providers, as you mentioned. However, since those providers are not local to me, they are not able to refer me to them. I have been fighting this battle since 2019. There is a lot of talk that indicates someone is trying to fix this, but for now, it is just talk and not helpful to me.
I hope you have a good result. If they do electrolysis there, please let me know. I have been unable to locate any electrolysis provider that works with the VA anywhere in the country.