Lilis Unveiled

[Annaliese]

Susan's allows me some vicarious freedom.  Many success stories here!

This has been a great value for me. I seem to be more relaxed here and I believe this has allowed me to make some of my decisions I have in the last couple of weeks.

[Lilis]

I am not much use at giving advise as it was so easy and as I have little funds I have to put up with what nature has blessed me with (between a B and C) GRS on the NHS.

I take so much from you each day, believe it or not your daily initial posts are my first reading everyday at around the time my day is beginning here in the west.

I quietly read your journey in the back ground everyday, Davina! 💗

Susan's allows me some vicarious freedom.  Many success stories here!

Remarkable, D'Amalie! We're surrounded by wonderful, amazing people! 💓💞

This has been a great value for me. I seem to be more relaxed here and I believe this has allowed me to make some of my decisions I have in the last couple of weeks.

This is how I started here, and continue being like this still. 💗


~ Lilis 🫂

[Sephirah]

@Sephirah You see what you started? 😊

Now I can't stop! 💗


I love you! 🥰💕

~ Lilis 🫂

Love you, too, Lilis! And I'm glad the dam has broken. You deserve to be seen. Like Ash said... there she is!!

Funny thing is, you actually look a little like the image I had in my head of you. Only that image doesn't do you justice. You are gorgeous, Lilis. As I kinda always knew you were. I adore those boots! And the girl in them. You are beautiful. And thank you for taking that leap to put yourself out there. It takes a massive amount of guts a lot of people don't have, me included.

Now your light is out from under the bushel.. keep going! <3

Also a belated happy anniversary!!

Anna, you are beautiful, too. Seems to me like every time someone shows a pic of themselves here, their inner light accentuates their outer appearance. You are glowing. I shouldn't be surprised. If what's outside is only a shadow of a reflection of what's inside... you're all stunning.

[Mrs. Oliphant]

Yep. Lilis also looks a bit like Sephirah's avatar. But no worries, Annaliese, we've just begun our physigognomic transformation. Soon, we'll be rockin' tight jeans and designer boots. Until then, I do envy better than most.   

[Sephirah]

Yep. Lilis also looks a bit like Sephirah's avatar. But no worries, Annaliese, we've just begun our physigognomic transformation. Soon, we'll be rockin' tight jeans and designer boots. Until then, I do envy better than most.   

Annika.. girl you have nothing to be envious of. When you took that leap of faith and showed me what you look like... girl you are stunning. It's always in your eyes and in your smile. You, too, are gorgeous. You have that light shining through you. The hardest thing is that mountain to climb to get that confidence. You, Lilis, and Anna... you are such beautiful, shining women. Moreso because your vulnerability makes it hard. You climbed Everest and planted the flag!

Lilis is way more beautiful than any avatar I use. I wish my hair had that uniform curl. My hair was always a mess, lol. Like some stylist smoked too many drugs and kind of went nuts with the curling tongs. I had to fight it every day of my life just to not feel like I got dragged through a hedge backwards.

You are all far, far more beautiful than you ever think you are. And mostly because you've got to the point where you have the confidence to let the world see your light.

Keep shining. Because you are a beacon for others. <3

[Lilis]

Love you, too, Lilis! And I'm glad the dam has broken. You deserve to be seen. Like Ash said... there she is!!

Love you, too, Lauren. 💗

Those words "there she is" hit me so deeply.

There's such relief in no longer living solely in reflections and shadows, and in finally stepping into the light and being seen not just in spirit, but in the physical world.

For so long, this world has kept me in a quiet presence behind the curtains, waiting for the right moment.

Now, to feel visible, to be visible, is equal vulnerable, and freeing.

Thank you, Lauren and Ashley for witnessing me.

It means more than words can say. 💓

Funny thing is, you actually look a little like the image I had in my head of you. Only that image doesn't do you justice. You are gorgeous, Lilis. As I kinda always knew you were. I adore those boots! And the girl in them. You are beautiful.

Lauren, you truly know how to make me feel special.

Bushing...😊

And thank you for taking that leap to put yourself out there. It takes a massive amount of guts a lot of people don't have, me included.

Now your light is out from under the bushel.. keep going! <3

Also a belated happy anniversary!!

No, thank you, Lauren for the inspiration. Honestly, I couldn't do this alone! 🫂💞


~ Lilis 💗

[Sephirah]

Lilis, you are special. I have met very few people in my life with the warmth, kindness, gentleness, wisdom, grace and humbleness you have within you. I kind of think this place attracts a certain kind of person because most who share these traits are people here.

And girl, you're never alone. I will always be your cheerleader. See? *\o/*

<3

[Lilis]

Just got home from my procedure, nothing serious, but I'm glad it's over.

I have to admit, seeing my gender marker change from (F) for Female to (TF) for Transgender Female brought up some mixed emotions.

There's a bit of sadness in it.

I had come to appreciate the visibility and affirmation that came with simply being marked (F).

Still, this feels like a sign that it's time to move forward with updating my legal name and gender marker on my ID.

Starting to look into the process now...

~ Lilis 💗

I received a call today from the law firm's office... they're ready to get the ball rolling on the documentation for my name change and just need a few personal details to move forward.

The only ID they're not handling at the moment is the passport, due to the current political climate.

That's okay, though... I don't have any plans to travel internationally anytime soon.

We're scheduled to meet in June to finalize everything before they submit the paperwork to the court on June 10th.

Funny enough, June 10th, 2024 was also the day I began my GAHT journey.

It's like June 10th is becoming my new birthday. 🎂🎈

And honestly, I'm a bit tired of stretching myself thin doing everything DIY..  so I'm treating myself to some hired help on this one.

~ Lilis 💗